Paula Kirsch Therapy

10/11/2026

Some news I’m happy to share!

I’m now licensed in Massachusetts as an LICSW and registered in Florida as a telehealth provider, so I can offer virtual therapy to couples and individuals in Connecticut, New York, Michigan, Massachusetts, and Florida.

I’m also adding discernment counseling for couples where one partner is leaning out of the relationship and the other is leaning in. It’s a short-term process focused on helping you both get clear about where you stand and decide what comes next, without pressure to fix things or to end them.

If this sounds like you or someone you care about, you can learn more here: https://paulakirschtherapy.com/discernment-counseling

I’d be glad to hear from you.

Paula Kirsch, LICSW, LCSW, CST

Discernment counseling for couples where one partner is leaning out and the other is leaning in. A short, structured, private-pay process. Telehealth in MA, NY, CT, MI, and FL.

07/19/2026

My Sunday morning: A talk by Dr. Evan Goldstein, a board certified a**l surgeon, talking about everything a**l s*x, followed by Dr. Stan Tatkin on relationships and infidelity. all through my Phd Program at Modern S*x Therapy Institutes.

06/12/2026

Not sure where you and your partner actually stand?
Most couples have never had a real conversation about desire — what it is, how it works, or how it shifts over time. Whether you've found yourselves on completely different pages, or you've both simply lost your baseline connection, this short quiz is a place to start.

Myth vs. reality — a short psychoeducation quiz to help you and your partner start a new kind of conversation. Developed by Paula Kirsch, LCSW, CST.

06/09/2026

Private Pay Therapy might be more affordable than you think.

Wondering if private-pay therapy is worth the cost? Here are 8 honest reasons why seeing an out-of-network therapist -- especially a specialist -- might make more sense than you think.

05/25/2026

Your Antidepressant May Be Affecting Your S*x Life
and There's More You Can Do About It Than You Think
Written By Paula Kirsch, LCSW, CST - May 24

Paula Kirsch LCSW, CST talks about how your antidepressant may be affecting your s*x life - and what you can do about it.

04/26/2026

paulakirschtherapy.com/blog/when-talking-isnt-enough
When Talking Isn't Enough - A Different Path to Healing with Brainspotting

If traditional therapy hasn't moved what you're carrying, Brainspotting might. Paula Kirsch, LCSW, CST explains how this trauma-focused approach works, what to expect in a session, and why it reaches places words often can't.

04/25/2026

The #1 problem women over 35 bring to the therapists and doctors

If you've lost interest in s*x, you're not alone and you're not broken. S*x therapist, Paula Kirsch, LCSW, CST explains why, and what to do about it. Telehealth in NY, CT & MI.

03/31/2026

What is getting in the way of your happiness? Trust? Infidelity? Desire Discrepancy? Check out my services here: https://www.paulakirschlmsw.com/couples-therapy-connecticut-michigan

03/30/2026