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New Legacy Counseling Services Providing clinically effective guidance for sexual addiction recovery + Training for therapists in a revolutionary method called Figure It Out

10/12/2026

Dear Clinicians: Anyone have a clinical case where you feel STUCK? I’ve used Lego figures in case consultation for 12 years, and ideas pop when a case is physically laid out in front of you instead of just talked about.

Free, live demo: Tuesday, October 27, 11am PT. Bring a stuck case (de-identified), I’ll build it out live on Zoom, you direct the adjustments, and I will invite other attendees to provide some insights. No prep, no Lego experience needed!

I’ll select 2-3 cases to work live, selected according to variety.

Observe or volunteer a case:
https://forms.gle/VYWHYjkBr4V1i6f2A

(See Clips of the method in action in the video!)

Pastoral Care Tip: When preaching about healthy marriages, consider also the impact on those navigating separation or di...
06/08/2026

Pastoral Care Tip: When preaching about healthy marriages, consider also the impact on those navigating separation or divorce. A simple sentence of recognition can remind people that divorce does not make them second class citizens in the Kingdom of God.

Pastoral care tip: Ask “What’s something you thought your future would look like that you’re grieving today?” Then cry w...
06/05/2026

Pastoral care tip: Ask “What’s something you thought your future would look like that you’re grieving today?”
Then cry with them ❤️‍🩹

Last week, men in my city’s Facebook community group responded to a news article about Arcadia’s mayor — a Chinese Ameri...
05/13/2026

Last week, men in my city’s Facebook community group responded to a news article about Arcadia’s mayor — a Chinese American woman — with comments like that are among the oldest, most degrading stereotypes weaponized against Asian women. (Swipe to read at your own discretion)

The mayor’s guilt in this legal matter is not my focal point here. I hope justice is served according to the law. But the moment her face appeared on screen, she stopped being a public official and became an object to sexualize and mock. As an Asian American this is extra offensive.

For those in sexual addiction recovery, moments like this matter deeply. The casual objectification of women in public spaces (normalized in comment sections, laughed off as jokes, affirmed with thumbs up) is the kind of cultural clangor that reinforces the distorted thinking patterns that recovery works so hard to dismantle. Healing requires building a new relationship with how we see other human beings. That work is made that much harder when our own communities model the opposite.

05/08/2026

Some people remain stuck because they are holding out hope that their addicted partner will change. People in faith communities especially struggle with this dilemma. Yet no amount of change forces a person to stay in the relationship. Each person must ultimately decide what they actually want and need. We must remind one another of this reality. Full video about this topic here:

https://youtu.be/yaMqEmOmRv8

05/04/2026

If you’re a betrayed spouse and you feel guilty for even considering leaving, that guilt may be misdirected. You didn’t create this choice. The betrayal did.
Find the full video on my YouTube channel, link in bio

03/30/2026

The church means well but meaning well isn’t the same as responding well.
Link in bio for the full video

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