08/02/2026
For better or for worse?
Maturing physically and spiritually have important parallels. Part of physically maturation comes from the recognition that you are a byproduct of your parents dna. To deny that is literally self defeating. That is why the Bible said not to curse your father and mother.
The same concept is in the marriage vow, “for better or worse.” You get to decide part of that, and there is also a part of that beyond your control. The power is in a decision, for better or for worse. You will have a fundamental belief about life. You will ultimately regard it as either for better or for worse.
Jesus Christ demonstrated this when he said all things are given me by the Father. What Jesus? All things? Birth in a stable? Herod trying to hunt you down as an infant? Being born in poverty? Being misunderstood by everyone around you? Having a small congregation of 12 and even one of them betrays him? Being forsaken by that entire congregation? Being publicly humiliated before Pilate and that angry mob? Being spat upon, flogged, nailed to a cross, and ultimately feeling forsaken by his own father that sent him on the mission in the first place! Yet at the end of the cross what does he say? Father, into thy hands I commit my spirit! For better or for worse? Jesus chose for better! Because of this,Paul could later write, “o death where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin: and the strength of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”