08/10/2026
In a world that tells us we can do it all, and a place where we are constantly consumed by people’s highlight reels. I am here to remind you that none of us are doing it all.
We are dropping balls.
Late on emails.
Running behind because mixing motherhood and work means sometimes someone cries when you walk out the door.
Sometimes we are telling our kids “just a moment” (for a lot of moments) while we try and show up in the digital space.
And sometimes we are ignoring the pings of our phone when we are trying to put our feet on the grass or walk in the woods.
Balance is a unicorn that most of us have yet to find.
So it’s pretty important to me to just show up authentically and unapologetically(ok actually there will be apologizing bc that’s a trait of a perfectionist😬).
What I have learned in friendship, motherhood and working especially with mothers and new parents is that there is so much value in the authenticity and vulnerability.
I originally wanted to make this post about what it’a like being on call, but that just seemed to skim the surface.
So when you see someone showing up with meals, just know her kitchen is probably messy and her kids are eating pizza. When a mom is late it’s probably because she had to kiss a boo boo or nurse a baby. When someone takes a moment to get back to you, maybe it’s because they needed some time to unplug.
So here’s my heartfelt reminder, none of us are doing it all, myself especially. But I appreciate you sticking around this corner of the internet and I appreciate even more those of you who let me be a part of your village.