10/04/2026
I shared with a young man all women are not the same ! So throw that thought out the door the negativity about every situation has a tendency of rising to the top other than positive things that happen in any relationship don’t get me wrong. I’ve been through some things, but I learned the truth that was behind the scenes I had to take responsibility for my own actions and when I did that, that’s when the playing field became leveled as hell people that I used to date realize that I wasn’t no more in that toxicity of relationships and I had outgrown them, but some people wanna fight I’m not telling you not to fight back. You have every right to defend yourself, but you don’t have to live with someone who has major things they want to carry around and never address and that’s when you run into domestic violence situations some people are carrying baggage from past relationships even childhood trauma that they haven’t put down, but you don’t have to carry it with them. You can choose to change. That’s something I use very often choose to change for yourself not for them, but for yourself if they care enough about you, they will see that you’re trying to make a change, but if they don’t recognize it then that’s not the person for you misery loves company that’s why I always say watch the company you keep people will make time for what they choose to and the ones who don’t make time for you cut them loose man you think of so many women in the world and women outnumbered men don’t get stuck in some sort of trap or that guilt s**t just don’t.Jorge CalzudesJosephine Hodge@