10/09/2026
What if the person youâve worked so hard to become isnât actually who you want to be?
Think about it. The years you spent doing what you thought you were supposed to do: following the rules, achieving the goals, being the responsible one, the problem solver, the person everyone comes to.
Your daily life often consists of spending hours researching something before making a decision because youâre afraid of getting it wrong. And even after youâve made the decision, youâre still questioning whether you made the right one.
There are times you want to speak up at work or in your relationship, but you hold back because youâre worried about how the other person will respond. Will they be upset? Will they reject you? Will they think differently of you?
Donât get me wrong, youâve done well for yourself. But something still feels like itâs missing.
And hereâs where I come in: getting to the root of whatâs missing and whatâs keeping you in the overthinking loop or people pleasing behavior.
Iâm an interactive therapist, meaning Iâm engaged with my clients. Something I often explore with them is this: how much of the life youâre living is based on what you actually want versus what youâve been taught you should want? đđđ
Because one of the ways I understand perfectionism is trying to live up to other peopleâs expectations, sometimes for so long that you havenât even stopped to question whether those expectations still serve you.
So we get curious about where those beliefs came from, how theyâve shaped the way you see yourself, and whether theyâre still aligned with who you are today.
And when you begin to recognise that you have choices, thereâs an opportunity to begin trusting yourself, speaking up, putting yourself first without guilt, and reconnecting with your authentic self.
If this speaks to you, Iâd love to connect. Click below to schedule a free consultation.
https://www.authenticallybeyou.com/
I offer in-person therapy in Dunwoody, GA, and virtual sessions throughout Georgia. And if lsomeone came to mind while reading this, feel free to share it with them.