06/12/2026
The biggest lie I was told was to follow the rules, whether it was said implicitly or explicitly, the message was clear: be a good girl, follow the rules and everybody will love you and you’ll get the life you want, the great job, the husband, the kids, just be good and it will all work out.
But here’s the truth, the life of joy, freedom and inspiration that I live is not because I followed the rules, it’s because I learned to find my own voice and courageously let go of the rules, because I realized nobody else was following them anyway.
A recent rule I broke? I sold my house and didn’t buy another one, I went on a sabbatical and moved into an apartment just because that’s what I wanted, a lot of people looked at me like I was crazy but it brought me the most satisfaction.
Nobody is following the rules, so that means neither do you.
What rule have you been following that no longer serves you? Let me joke jet he comments so I can cheer you on. 😁👏🏾