06/23/2026
You planned the trip. You’ve been looking forward to it. And now that you’re here, you can’t relax.
Sound familiar?
Vacation anxiety is more common than people realize. The pressure to enjoy yourself, the guilt about unplugging, the hypervigilance that does not turn off just because the setting has changed.
It feels like your nervous system did not get the memo that you are supposed to be unwinding.
Here’s what’s actually happening: when your baseline is high stress, your brain does not automatically downshift when the scenery changes. Rest is a skill. And for a lot of people carrying a heavy load, it often has to be relearned.
A few things that can help:
🌊 Lower the expectations. Vacation does not have to be transformative to be worth something.
📵 Give yourself permission to ease in slowly rather than forcing relaxation from the moment you arrive.
🧘 Use grounding techniques when anxiety spikes. Five things you can see, four you can touch.
💬 Talk about it. You don’t have to perform enjoyment.
And when you get home, if the anxiety does not lift, that is worth exploring in therapy. 💜