Doula Oblongata

Doula Oblongata ✨DONA Certified Postpartum Doula
✨Certified Breastfeeding Specialist Nothing ever felt like, “This is it. This is what I want to do with my life”.

I’m originally from Massachusetts, but I’ve been living in Chittenden county for the past seven years. I spent years in the restaurant industry, but it was so defeating, and not what I wanted as a lifetime career. I obtained my business degree while working in multiple fields (non-profit world, healthcare, etc.). Nothing ever felt like my true calling. When I became pregnant, I decided I would stop working all together, as much as a financial burden as it would be, and focus on being a mom. Little did I know, this is when I would figure it all out. I became interested in becoming a doula almost immediately after my son was born. My husband went back to work, and I felt overwhelmed and lonely not having any family where I live and few friends close-by. Despite having about 20 years working with children, I was still scared that I just didn’t have all of the information I needed to be a confident parent. The unknown is scary, and there was a lot of unknown. I wanted to learn how to help others like myself, and the more I learned, the more interested I became. Being a new parent is no joke, and there’s so much that people don’t tell you. I decided that I want to help other families feel supported and educated to feel more confident and less scared/overwhelmed with being new parents.

Perinatal mental health and lactation are so incredibly intertwined. In order to better equip myself to support families...
08/17/2026

Perinatal mental health and lactation are so incredibly intertwined. In order to better equip myself to support families, I decided to work toward obtaining my Perinatal Mental Health Certificate (PMH-C) through Postpartum Support International

Today was exam day.

& I passed!
I am now a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional
🎉🤗

07/20/2026

A Massachusetts mother charged in the killing of her children goes on trial on Monday. The small coastal town of Duxbury is preparing to relive a case focused on postpartum mental health.

Picture 1 is a photo I found of my living room after a deep clean. Before having a child, nothing ever felt better to me...
06/07/2026

Picture 1 is a photo I found of my living room after a deep clean. Before having a child, nothing ever felt better to me than a freshly cleaned and cozy home. It was one of my favorite things.

Picture 2 is my living room right now. Peep toddler in the empty blanket basket after pulling the clean blankets out onto the dirty floor.

Part of parenthood is learning to let go.

Let go of some pieces of yourself, while gaining new pieces of identity.

Let go of having quiet moments whenever you choose. Instead, find them on a solo car ride, in a parking lot before you go inside, or when they finally fall asleep.

Let go of people who don’t show up for you. Embrace those who truly see you.

Let go of good nights of sleep. Savor the ones that surprise you.

Let go of perfection: a clean home, a home-cooked meal every night, responding to every text, looking put-together, having it all figured out. Find peace in good enough.

Because while you’re letting go, you’re also holding on to something you never expected to love this much.

💜💙

*some of the photos get blurry after I post this, sorry!* Over the past year, I’ve developed a deep passion for helping ...
05/31/2026

*some of the photos get blurry after I post this, sorry!*

Over the past year, I’ve developed a deep passion for helping pumping parents find their best-fitting fl**ges.

A recent study showed that smaller, more individualized fl**ge sizing may actually be more comfortable – and possibly yield better output (or comparable output in less time) – compared to the decades-old standard of 24mm, 28mm, and larger.

After sizing local parents and seeing remarkable results, I wanted more data. So I built a survey and started collecting feedback from everyone I’d sized. Here’s a sneak peek.

The most common size I fit? 13mm.

I’ve sized parents from 9mm to 17mm – rarely larger.

Many parents are different sizes on each side, some also using different shaped fl**ges.

Standard sizing has always been 24-28mm (and higher). But here’s the thing: there was never evidence to support those sizes. They were adapted from cow-milking machines. Most cow fl**ges are actually smaller than 24mm. 🫣

So what does a good fit look and feel like?

👉🏼 It should feel like nothing, or a gentle tug. Zero pinching. Zero pain. I won’t sign off on a size unless it’s comfortable.

👉🏽 We’re looking for sprays of milk. In early postpartum, when supply isn’t fully in, comfort is the primary measure.

👉🏿 In most cases, with a proper fit, the ni**le actually touches the tunnel wall – BUT glides freely.

I follow up with parents for weeks to months after sizing to track any changes in comfort or output.

Want to know more?
Send me a message – I also offer professional trainings!

Just another tough day on the job. The animals always think I’m there for them.🐈‍⬛* Posted with permission from family
05/16/2026

Just another tough day on the job.

The animals always think I’m there for them.

🐈‍⬛

* Posted with permission from family

Hi 👋🏼 I’m Dani.So much has changed since I last introduced myself, so another intro was needed. It’s been almost two yea...
05/03/2026

Hi 👋🏼 I’m Dani.

So much has changed since I last introduced myself, so another intro was needed.

It’s been almost two years since I’ve started this journey, and to say it has taken off is an understatement.

So, here’s the latest:

I finished the certification process to become a certified postpartum doula through DONA International. I also started attending births.

BUT

I fell in love with lactation along the way.

I became a Certified Breastfeeding Specialist in 2024.

In the beginning of 2025, I decided to bite the bullet and work toward sitting for the board to become an IBCLC. This journey requires 1,000 hours of working as a Certified Breastfeeding Specialist in my community. I am over half way done with these hours 👏🏼

I started working with Essex Pediatrics as a family support specialist- helping their families with lactation and postpartum support.

I started learning about the recent fl**ge fit research, and I got hooked. I’ve taken over a dozen hours of specialized training in this evidence-based method of fl**ge sizing that has CHANGED pumping for pumping people.

I started collecting feedback from those I resized using this method, and I shared this data, along with the method, with UVMMC’s lactation team.

UVMMC’s postpartum unit is now implementing the use of smaller fl**ges.

Families’ lives are changing as a result.

If you’ve ever used a 24 or 28mm fl**ge (or even bigger) and had pain and/or swelling, you already understand why pain-free pumping matters.

I started offering virtual fl**ge fittings, and they have been a success. Making this more accessible is my goal.

It’s been hard. It’s been amazing.

I’m so grateful to be a part of this world. I’m so grateful to be allowed into these families’ homes & hospital rooms during the most vulnerable and transformative period of their lives.

🫶🏼

📷 .gallagher

04/06/2026

We are thrilled to bring you the Vermont (VT) Pregnancy and Baby Expo! This is your one stop shop for everything pregancy and baby!

Address

Essex Junction, VT
05452

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Doula Oblongata posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Practice

Send a message to Doula Oblongata:

Shortcuts

Share