Tranquil Touch Birth & Women's Wellness

Tranquil Touch Birth & Women's Wellness Birth Support Specialist: Doula, Childbirth Educator, Perinatal Emotional & Mental Wellness Coach, Infant Massage Instructor

Through every step of your journey, from childbirth & newborn care education to traditional birth support, I offer compassionate, personalized care to help you feel informed, supported, and confident—I bring specialized training in supporting planned cesareans and NICU stays—offering a calm, grounded presence in the operating room and, as your postpartum doula, helping ease the emotional transitio

n home after the hospital. It would be my honor to work with you 🩷

Support for Private Pay Clients and Clients with Medicaid in Michigan, and Private Pay Clients through Virtual Telehealth nationwide

The Mental Load of Motherhood and Returning to Work after Maternity Leave EndsAs we head into the season of school shopp...
08/11/2026

The Mental Load of Motherhood and Returning to Work after Maternity Leave Ends

As we head into the season of school shopping, new routines, and getting everyone ready for another school year, many new moms are also thinking about returning to work after maternity leave.

Even though my own children are all grown up, parts of this article really spoke to me. That mental load—the endless list of things to remember, anticipate, organize, and somehow keep track of—is something so many mothers carry, often without even realizing just how much they’re holding.

This is a thoughtful and practical read, and I especially appreciate that it acknowledges how much is happening behind the scenes for moms.

If you’re a mom returning to work, raising multiple children, or simply feeling the weight of everything on your plate, I encourage you to give it a read. And then share it with a woman in your life who might need the reminder that she doesn’t have to carry it all alone. ❤️

Managing the Mental Load: Practical Tools for Moms Returning to Work or Raising Multiple Kids If you're heading back to work after maternity leave, or you're deep in the season of raising more than one small human, you already know the mental load is real. It's the invisible running l...

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06/28/2026

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You do NOT need a freezer full of colostrum before your baby is born. As if we don’t have enough anxiety already about feeding your baby after birth, you don’t need anxiety about feeding your baby before birth either. I’ve had a run of prenatal consultations this month who all were hyper focused on creating colostrum stashes before baby even comes.

I don’t know which pregnant mama needs to hear this today, but you do not need to be harvesting colostrum during pregnancy to be successful at breastfeeding.

Over the last few years, antenatal colostrum collection has gone from being a helpful tool in specific medical situations to something that social media has made many families feel they should be doing.

And for some, that message creates unnecessary stress, anxiety, and self-doubt.

IRL? There is a huge range of what is normal when it comes to seeing colostrum during pregnancy.

Some moms can easily express drops.
Some see quite a bit.
Some see a little and then nothing.
Some never see any at all.

What does that tell us?

Mostly that you’re pregnant.

It does not predict your future milk supply.
It does not predict whether breastfeeding will go well.
And it does not tell us how much milk you’ll make after birth.

I also frequently hear concerns that expressing colostrum during pregnancy might trigger labor. While antenatal hand expression is generally considered safe for low-risk pregnancies when approved by your healthcare provider, it is not a reliable way to start labor. If ni**le stimulation consistently caused labor, it would be used instead of medical inductions (and that’s simply not the case).

What actually triggers lactation and your milk to transition from colostrum to mature milk and increase in volume is the birth of your baby and the delivery of the placenta.

When the placenta detaches, hormone levels shift dramatically and your body receives the signal to begin increasing milk production. Then your baby latches, feeds, and removes milk, telling your body exactly how much milk is needed.

That’s how the system was designed.

In the first 24 hours after birth, babies take very small volumes. Drops to teaspoons to then tablespoons at a time. Through the first several days, we’re often talking teaspoons, not ounces. Frequent feeding, not large volumes, is what helps establish milk production. And we want that colostrum coming from YOU to stimulate production and not the freezer unless medically indicated.

This is one reason why breastfeeding directly at the breast is so important in the early days. Baby’s feeding behavior provides valuable information to your body about how much milk to make.

That doesn’t mean prenatally expressed colostrum is bad. I teach every single mother who comes to me for a prenatal consultation how to hand express while pregnant. It’s always so exciting to see those glistening drops of colostrum and reassure her that SHE HAS MILK!!! You already have milk before your baby is born and it’s ready for them. In fact, it can be incredibly helpful in certain situations, including:

• Babies at higher risk for significant blood sugar challenges, such as babies born to mothers with diabetes or babies who are unusually large or small for gestational age
• Some preterm infants or babies with scheduled inductions between 35-38 weeks where we would anticipated feeding challenges
• Situations involving medically necessary mother-baby separation
• If baby needs supplemented like for jaundice or too much weight loss
• Medical complications like postpartum preeclampsia or a large blood loss after birth that can delay milk transitioning or coming in.

For these families, having colostrum available can be a wonderful tool. But you do not need a freezer full of syringes to prepare for breastfeeding.

What I do love about antenatal hand expression is that it can help mothers learn how their breasts work and build confidence before baby arrives. Learning the skill of hand expression can be empowering and I encourage everyone to know how to hand express.

Just don’t mistake it for a test that social media is setting you up to feel like you’ll fail.Your ability to collect colostrum before birth is not a measure of your future breastfeeding success.

If you want to express colostrum, and your healthcare provider has cleared you to do so, go for it.

If you don’t want to, that’s okay too.

🥱It's been a long day...it's been a long year...my dad has worked incredibly hard to recover from his life-threatening m...
05/06/2026

🥱It's been a long day...it's been a long year...my dad has worked incredibly hard to recover from his life-threatening medical emergency last year.
He beat the survival statistics last year and, despite a few setbacks, he had his final surgery today 🎉

I cannot express to my husband, kids, friends, and clients how grateful I am for supporting me through all the ups and downs, the unexpected schedule changes, and all the other things that happen to caregivers.

And, a HUGE thank you to all his nurses, doctors, and support staff who have cared for him expertly! Especially here at the VA hospital - you are all INCREDIBLE!



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I ♥️  it when my friends send me articles like this!
03/21/2026

I ♥️ it when my friends send me articles like this!

While more Medicaid patients and even some on private plans have gained doula coverage in recent years, United is the first major insurer to begin rolling out the benefit nationwide.

👶🏻 New baby alert - this little one kept us guessing until the last minute! 🔃 .We knew we needed to stay flexible with h...
03/16/2026

👶🏻 New baby alert - this little one kept us guessing until the last minute!

🔃 .We knew we needed to stay flexible with her goals and expectations. This mom already had solid self-advocacy skills due to pre-existing, somewhat rare health issues. Pregnancy introduced a few more that we needed to consider in shaping her birth plans. First we prepped for an end of the month arrival, then, we prepped for a beginning of the month arrival, then everything appeared to be back to wait and see - but it will probably be another week, then it became clear that this baby was going to come in the next 24 hrs.

During labor, there were many times when the pace was slow and steady. Then, things sped up really quick, then slowed down again. Finally, baby arrived!

🏞 Lesson learned from this birth:
Thorough birth prep, honest communication, and transparency lay a foundation for trust and confidence so moms and their birth partners feel empowered no matter what twists and turns their labor journey takes.

🥰 It was also key to balancing doula support with being my dad's caregiver as we prepared for his next surgery. Life keeps life-ing even when on call and giving bedside support!

🎊 Congratulations to this truly incredible mom and dad!


"On the family front, equitable distribution of cognitive responsibilities, not just physical tasks, is essential. When ...
03/14/2026

"On the family front, equitable distribution of cognitive responsibilities, not just physical tasks, is essential. When both partners share ownership of calendars, appointments and long-range planning, the invisible labour becomes visible and negotiable."

Working mothers carry the thinking behind work and home — and the cost is rising

Just saying "hi" to let y'all know I'm still here - just been busy meeting babies and spending time with amazing birthwo...
03/06/2026

Just saying "hi" to let y'all know I'm still here - just been busy meeting babies and spending time with amazing birthworkers whenever I can 🥰

I'm curious to know, how has 2026 been going for you?

My recent birth was last week and truly memorable:An induction was started late in the evening.After months of prep and ...
02/23/2026

My recent birth was last week and truly memorable:

An induction was started late in the evening.

After months of prep and education, and with her super supportive partner at her side...
She labored. She processed. She pivoted. She made thoughtful decisions for herself and her baby.

And that is what can make a powerful and positive birth experience.

Although their journey was lengthy and looked different than they imagined, this family met each other surrounded by a team that cared for them with care and respect.

It was an honor to be with them during pregancy, provide tailored support at their pace, and witness her becoming a mother.

The lessons:
🔹️When mom and baby are fsoing fine, the pace of the journey should be set by the woman and her partner.
🔹️As it unfolds, their options should be presented unbiased and without pressure to choose one or another.
🔹️Medical and support people can contribute to positive birth experiences by giving the woman and her partner the space to HEAR their options/recommendations, ASK questions, DISCUSS and WEIGH out the risks & benefits of everything presented, and DECIDE what feels safest and best for them because their birth BELONGS to them!

Every birth story matters — including the ones that don’t go according to plan. 🩷

02/06/2026

A Little Life + Work Update to Start 2026

Last April, I hit publish on my newly relaunched website—and then, as life so often does, everything kept moving right along. I realized recently that I never really paused to share an update here about what’s been unfolding since then, both professionally and personally. So this feels like a good place to gently ease back into blogging and say: hi, I’m still here....

02/06/2026

“I always tease that my superpower is that I have three kids with no labor pains.” 😄

On the latest episode of Metro Detroit Birth Stories, Erica shares her planned cesarean birth, her long fertility journey, and how postpartum support helped her finally get clarity and care around PMDD.

Erica's story proves that each baby's story is special
🎧 Listen Now or on your favorite podcast app

https://www.tranquiltouchforwomen.com/freebies/pregnancy-birth-postpartum-resources/doula-podcast-blog-2/

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