09/10/2026
I started lifting weights when I was 14. I was the only girl in a boy’s hockey league and I needed to be strong to keep up.
I found a gym that I could run to, filled with old school bodybuilders, and they let me pay $5 a month to lift weights there.
My goal was to have “tree trunks for legs” as a teenage girl because that’s what I saw from my favorite pro hockey goalie. I didn’t care about being skinny, make-up, partying, or boys. 🤷🏻♀️ I just wanted to be strong. I wanted to be the best athlete I could be.... because that was my ticket out.
As I’ve shared before, I grew up in poverty, homeless shelters, and chaos at times. Hockey was my way out. I knew if I worked hard, I could go to college with it (and I did).
As a teenager, I’d spend hours training. Lifting weights and being on the ice helped me feel empowered when everything around me was falling apart.
Years later, I got hurt playing hockey in college and had to stop playing. My world felt like it was going under. But I didn’t give up.
I didn’t have hockey anymore, so I devoted more time to lifting, cycling, and running. I remembered that same feeling of how strong I could feel and be… even when life was hard.
Then I got sick. Surgeries. Treatments. Lots of pain. But I kept on training because it helped me feel better in many ways. I ran marathons on harsh drug treatments and put my focus on being strong enough to finish and endure.
You see, there is SO much more to training than hitting a number or a race goal or looking a certain way. It’s that sense of purpose that drives many of us… believing that we can do more and have the power to change our circumstances.
It’s the same feeling I had when I was 14 years old, then in college, and later on when battling sickness. It’s knowing that we CAN rewrite our own story.
I don’t know what you are going through right now, but I know we all have our “hard stuff” so I want to encourage you:
Keep on enduring. Keep doing YOUR thing: lift weights, cycle, run, swim, or whatever else it is. Block out the negativity, the numbers, the expectations, and the rules. Focus on how strong you are. Rewrite your own story. You got this. 👊🏼
Keep on keeping on.