08/07/2026
I used to love my birthday, and it was always more fun to share it with my twin. Our joke was that we could lie about our age, because we agreed on the age in advance and were each other's back up.
I don't love my birthday anymore. This year is a "milestone" birthday year, and is the second birthday without my twin.
He had carotoid artery disease, plus a turbulent HCM heart and died of a massive stroke.
HCM alone is tricky to treat, but any complications can turn you into a fragile patient. Guard your health in any way that is under your control - healthy weight, don't smoke, exercise - whatever you can do.
I love this picture from 2014 when we shared a birthday cake at my wedding.