09/15/2026
Happy Tuesday!
Sometimes we stay with a choice long after it stops feeling right simply because we were the ones who made it.
We chose the path. We made the commitment. We invested the time. We told people what we were going to do. Changing our mind can feel like admitting we were wrong or that all the effort we’ve already put in was wasted.
But what if it simply means you know something now that you didn’t know then?
Before moving into your day, pause.
Sacred Pause
Close your eyes.
Inhale slowly through your nose.
Exhale gently through your nose.
Think about an area of your life where you may be continuing something mostly because you've already come this far. Ask yourself, “If I were choosing today, knowing what I know now, would I still choose this?”
You may discover that the answer is absolutely yes. And that can strengthen your commitment.
But if the answer is no, you’re allowed to pay attention to that too.
Changing direction doesn’t erase what came before. The experience still taught you something. The time wasn't wasted simply because it led you somewhere different than you expected.
We aren't meant to make every decision once and then spend the rest of our lives defending it.
As you grow, you get new information about yourself and what matters to you. Sometimes honoring that means choosing again.
You’re Allowed to Choose Again. ✨