10/03/2026
Season One = Episode 1
This is where my Sacred Journey began ... Age: 4 One Biological Father & One Step Father until the age of 14.
One person drinks.
But everybody starts adapting. ❤️🩹
The children learn to read moods.
The partner learns to recognise the sound of the key in the door.
Everyone becomes careful about what they say.
Plans depend on whether they’re drinking.
Arguments are avoided because nobody wants to “set them off.”
Secrets are kept.
Excuses are made.
And slowly the whole family begins organising itself around one person’s addiction.
That is one of the cruellest parts of alcoholism.
The person drinking may only remember fragments of the night.
The family remembers all of it.
The embarrassment.
The fear.
The broken promises.
The car journey home.
The tension the next morning.
The feeling of wondering which version of the person they love is going to walk through the door tonight.
❤️🩹 But families deserve recovery too.
Even if the person drinking refuses help.
You are allowed to get support.
You are allowed to set boundaries.
You are allowed to stop keeping secrets.
And you are allowed to rebuild a peaceful life.
Recovery does not only belong to the addict. It belongs to everyone addiction has touched.
Yes, there is much grief in this short story. What was/were my loss(es)? If you can answer that, you have just tapped into to your own Sacred Journey. I encourage you to journal about it today.