Deborah Larson- Grief Strategist & Spiritual Mentor

08/06/2026

It shows up in the car, at a red light, hands still on the wheel.
Folding laundry that still smells like someone.

Staring at a ceiling at 3am, asking the only question that feels true enough to say out loud:

Why did You let this happen?

If you've asked it and then felt guilty for asking — you're not the first. And asking it isn't a failure of your faith.

It might be the most honest prayer you've prayed in years.

New on the blog: why God's silence during grief isn't what you think it is, and what the Spirit of Truth actually does with the question.

Read More Here:
https://deborahlarson.com/why-did-god-allow-this-to-happen/

There isn't a tidy answer to "why did God let this happen" — but there is a reason He can feel silent, and it's not what you think. Read why.

08/04/2026

Choose the Jesus Way... ✨ AskDeborahLarson.com

07/25/2026

This is what I know to be true.. ✨ AskDeborahLarson.com

07/24/2026

If you've lost someone you love, there's something you need to know.. ✨ AskDeborahLarson.com

07/21/2026

What happens when grief doesn’t come one blow at a time—but all at once?

In my podcast, Redeeming Her, Marielle shares the raw story of losing six loved ones within one year. It wasn’t just sadness. It was a spiritual and emotional collapse. Her body shut down. Her mind went numb. Her spirit went silent. This wasn’t a single storm—it was wave after wave of unrelenting loss.

It's called cumulative grief, where your heart can’t process each hit because they just keep coming. And maybe you’ve felt that too. When one trauma bleeds into the next, and suddenly, your soul forgets how to breathe. Grief healing can seem impossible... but love IS possible.

If you’re walking through your own fog of layered loss, this episode is an invitation. You don’t have to hold it all together. You don’t need to fake strength. You get to collapse—and let God rebuild. Healing starts with honesty. It moves through surrender. And it’s sustained by truth.

Watch the episode: https://youtu.be/KYFC09kiK_Q?is=fISsKx6M9SBBQjBO

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What happens when grief doesn’t come one blow at a time—but all at ...

07/17/2026

My incredible husband, Raymond, says it best, "Don't dismiss your spouse's journey." Through grief, loss and even day-to-day life experiences, it's important to support your spouse in their own journey with healing even if it looks different than your own. ✨ AskDeborahLarson.com

07/16/2026

As I sat on the plane, heart pounding and unsure what I was flying into, I asked God the only question that made sense: “What do You want me to do?” And in His soft but unmistakable voice, He said, “You’ve run out of runway. It’s time to go vertical.”

That phrase hit my spirit hard. It wasn’t just about the situation—it was about my life. About the mission He gave me years ago that I hadn’t fully stepped into. And He said something that arrested me:

“Obedience is about speed. Delay turns into disobedience.”
He was asking me to go vertical in faith.

Watch to learn more: https://youtu.be/hhZIepHM_cM

07/14/2026

And your loved doesn't want you to feel punished.
Grief is honoring who you lost. Guilt is punishing yourself for surviving.

They're not the same thing.

The guilt monster speaks condemnation. The Spirit of Truth speaks freedom. One wants you stuck. The other wants you living.

𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞?

If the guilt monster has been running your life, book a clarity call.
Let's talk about how to silence it: https://bit.ly/DeborahClarityCall

07/14/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲? ✨ There are many dynamics that affect the timing of where you start your healing. Let's book a clarity call to discuss your grief strategy: https://bit.ly/DeborahClarityCall

07/10/2026

Losing someone you love can be crippling, but healing isn't forgetting.

Keeping their memory in your daily thoughts and in your words is powerful—it keeps their love woven into the story of your life.

Healing doesn't ask you to leave them behind. It invites you to carry them differently.

When you speak their name, share their stories, laugh at the memories, or notice the ways they've shaped who you are, you're honoring a love that still lives. You don't have to choose between remembering them and moving forward. You can do both.

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