01/26/2023
My sweet advice to expecting parents:
For MOM:
1. Remember that you need to be hugged just as much as the baby; you matter too.
2. Do not listen to everything people tell you. Trust me; no one knows what works for every baby.
3. ASK for help if you need it – it’s OK!
4. All babies are different so never compare yours to another.
5. If you have roller-coast emotions or feel overwhelmed, that’s NORMAL! Please TALK with someone you feel comfortable with and have their support.
For PARTNER: She is giving you a tiny human, so you should give her a lot of support like…
1. Give her all the back rubs or/and foot rubs.
2. Bring her 8oz of water frequently – whenever you see her breastfeeding, she will start complaining about dehydration.
3. Give a HUG when it’s least deserved – it will save you a lot of unnecessary arguments.
4. Please do not keep score of changing diapers or others because she is YOUR teammate. She is already ahead of you for life after pushing a tiny human out.
5. Most importantly, you must find time for your partner, like treat her to a surprise or do something that makes her feel special.
A note to my love, Bryan: Thank you for your consistent support and love for me whenever I need it. You are an amazing husband (and father), and I am blessed! ❤️✨