08/07/2026
A friend called me from the ER over this, and the first thing she said was âI wish Iâd known.â
Her toddler had grabbed her own elbow and would not stop crying. They went to urgent care, they wanted to do X-rays, and this kid was in pain for hours before somebody finally said the words nursemaidâs elbow and fixed it in about three seconds.
Sheâs a member of mine and she came to me afterward and said please put this in the membership!
So hereâs whatâs actually happening.
In little kids, the ligament that holds the elbow together is still loose, and a sudden pull on a straight arm lets the bone slip out from under it. Itâs not a break and itâs not a dislocation in the way most of us picture one. Itâs mostly an age thing, which is why it happens constantly between about one and four and then basically stops around five once that ligament tightens up.
And it isnât only from swinging them. Catching a kid mid-fall by the hand does it. Pulling a toddler back from the street does it. Lifting them up by one arm does it. All completely normal parenting moments.
The way youâll know is that the arm just hangs. They wonât lift it, they wonât use it, and thereâs usually no swelling and no bruising at all. That last part is what makes it different from a fall.
If it was a pull and thereâs no swelling, the fix is what Iâm showing you here. If it was a fall, if thereâs swelling, or if the arm doesnât come right back to normal, thatâs when you get it looked at.
What can you do from home? There are two different techniques. I like the traditional Supination-flexion technique.
1. Stabilize the radial head with your thumb.
2. Supinate the forearm (turn the palm upward).
3. Then flex the elbow fully. You may feel or hear a subtle click over the radial head.
Done! You popped it back into place! Way to go Doctor Mom!
And just FYI, if this happens to your child, theyâre more prone to having it happen again, so be sure to save this reel just in case! Most mamas have never heard of this until it happens to their own kid, please send this to the other mamaâs in your life so theyâre not finding out in an urgent care waiting room.
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