08/04/2026
For many young people, entering the workforce has become less about taking a first step and more about believing they must identify the perfect career before taking any step at all. As a result, they become stuck in what psychologists often refer to as the fight, flight, or freeze response.
Some fight by endlessly debating every career possibility. Others flee by avoiding job applications altogether. Many simply freeze—unable to send resumes, attend interviews, or make decisions despite wanting independence.
The irony is that the search for the “right job” often prevents them from finding any job.
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