08/22/2026
There is something we need to talk about more. 💗
If you experienced postpartum depression, significant postpartum anxiety, or another mood disorder during the reproductive years, that history matters when you enter perimenopause.
We know that certain women appear to be particularly sensitive to the hormonal transitions that occur across a lifetime. And research has shown an association between a history of postpartum depression and depression during perimenopause.
That doesn't mean it will happen to you.
It means we should know to look for it. 🧠
We should ask about your postpartum history when you come to us at 42, 46, or 51.
We should ask what happened after your babies were born. How you felt. How severe it became. What helped. What didn't. Whether anyone recognized what was happening at the time.
Because that history may give us important information about how to care for you now.
And perhaps even more importantly, you deserve to know this about yourself before you are struggling. 💗
Too often, women move through enormous hormonal transitions while simultaneously carrying enormous expectations.
Keep working.
Keep parenting.
Keep managing the household.
Keep caring for everyone else.
Keep showing up.
And when something begins to feel profoundly different, women are still too often told that they're stressed, overwhelmed, anxious, or that this is simply part of getting older.
At Peri & Pause, we don't believe midlife women's healthcare should work that way.
We want to know your whole reproductive story - because pregnancy, postpartum experiences, menstrual mood symptoms, previous depression or anxiety, and your response to hormonal changes can all be important pieces of the picture. 🍃
Sometimes appropriate care includes treating the symptoms of the menopause transition. Sometimes it includes therapy. Sometimes it requires psychiatric expertise. Sometimes it requires several of us working together. We can coordinate this with you.
That is what good healthcare should look like. 🤝
Not waiting until a woman is in crisis.
Not expecting her to figure out which part of her experience belongs to which specialist.
Not asking her to carry one more thing alone.
If you experienced significant postpartum depression, anxiety, or mood symptoms years ago, please tell your menopause clinician.
And if you're approaching perimenopause, let us help you understand what to watch for and what resources are available before you need them.
Your history matters. 💗
We are listening.
We see you.
And we are here.
- Peri & Pause, The Menopause Center