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avoidant attachment gets misunderstood so easily as “not caring,” when it’s usually the exact opposite underneath the su...
06/05/2026

avoidant attachment gets misunderstood so easily as “not caring,” when it’s usually the exact opposite underneath the surface.

avoidant patterns usually show up when closeness has felt unsafe, overwhelming, or emotionally disconnected in the past. so distance becomes a way to stay regulated because overtime, they’ve learned that they can only truly count on themselves.

healing within relationships and connection requires consistency. continuously show the avoidant person you love that they’re not alone, you’re there when they need you, and that you’re a safe person to lean on🩵


the hard days can make our world feel very small.this is your reminder that there is still so much left to experience, f...
06/04/2026

the hard days can make our world feel very small.

this is your reminder that there is still so much left to experience, feel, discover, and enjoy. one day, one moment, one sunset at a time☀️🌼✨


a question worth asking: “am I doing this because I want to, or because I feel like I have to?”that one question can hel...
06/03/2026

a question worth asking: “am I doing this because I want to, or because I feel like I have to?”

that one question can help us begin to untangle kindness from people pleasing.

both care about others, but only one consistently makes room for you, too✨🩵


healing isn’t about “fixing” or “changing” yourself. it’s about reconnecting with who you were before you learned to hid...
06/02/2026

healing isn’t about “fixing” or “changing” yourself. it’s about reconnecting with who you were before you learned to hide parts of yourself to belong, stay safe, or meet expectations🩵


one of the biggest misconceptions about therapists is that we only care because it’s our job.what a lot of people don’t ...
06/01/2026

one of the biggest misconceptions about therapists is that we only care because it’s our job.

what a lot of people don’t realize, is that most therapists didn’t choose this career because they wanted a paycheck. we chose it because we genuinely care about people and feel honored to support them through some of life’s hardest moments. we’re real humans that care deeply about people, and cared about supporting others long before we ever sat in a therapy room, got licensed, or had “therapist” in our title.

are we professionals with boundaries? absolutely. and the boundaries we honor are in place for your well-being, too. boundaries create safety. they keep the focus on you and your needs. they help protect the therapeutic relationship so it can be a space that’s consistent, reliable, and centered on your growth.

the care is real. we celebrate with you… we think about you between sessions… we wonder how that hard conversation went… we notice your growth, even when you can’t see it yet. we feel genuinely so honored when you trust us with the vulnerable parts of your story.

getting a front-row seat to people’s growth is one of the greatest privileges of this job. so if you’ve ever wondered whether your therapist cares about you, chances are they probably do so much more than you realize🩷✨


loving someone with anxious attachment can bring up a lot for the both of you. confusion, urgency, misunderstanding on b...
05/29/2026

loving someone with anxious attachment can bring up a lot for the both of you. confusion, urgency, misunderstanding on both sides… and a lot of moments where no one feels fully “wrong,” just activated.

what’s important to remember is that this isn’t about someone being “too much” or someone else being “too distant.” it’s usually two nervous systems trying to find safety in different ways.

anxious attachment tends to reach for closeness when it feels uncertainty. avoidant attachment tends to create space when things feel emotionally intense. and without awareness, that cycle can start to feel like disconnection instead of protection.

what actually helps attuning to the needs of the person you love. and when they have an anxious attachment-style, that means providing all of the things they inconsistently experienced growing up: clarity, consistency, repair, and boundaries that don’t disappear, even in the hard moments.

you don’t have to get it all right. you just have to keep coming back and showing up for the person you love, just like you deserve from them🩵


a lot of us learned to be hard on ourselves as a way to cope, stay safe, stay liked, stay in control, avoid getting hurt...
05/28/2026

a lot of us learned to be hard on ourselves as a way to cope, stay safe, stay liked, stay in control, avoid getting hurt, etc. so when hard feelings come up, our first reaction is usually to judge ourselves, shut down, overthink, people please, or push our feelings away.

but true healing starts when you learn how to respond to yourself differently. with more curiosity, softness, honesty, and care. when your inner world feels safer, everything else starts to shift and feel safer too🩵


selfcompassion

friendly reminder: you’re allowed to go to therapy before things get “bad enough.” it’s actually the BEST time🩵 t...
05/28/2026

friendly reminder: you’re allowed to go to therapy before things get “bad enough.” it’s actually the BEST time🩵


traumainformedtherapy

a little peek into what helps our of our amazing providers, Brooke, feel grounded, inspired, and connected outside of th...
05/26/2026

a little peek into what helps our of our amazing providers, Brooke, feel grounded, inspired, and connected outside of the therapy room ✨

“One of the ways I find meaning in the world and engage in self-care is by immersing myself in music and storytelling. I recently had the opportunity to combine both my love for music and one my favorite stories of all time when I saw the symphony orchestra perform Star Wars: Return of the Jedi live in concert. Music and stories are ways humans have connected with each other for centuries, and can allow us to process our lives and experiences in a way that helps us make meaning of our own stories, find identity, inspire us to move forward, provide us with the words when we don’t have them, and know we are not alone. Whenever I need to relax, process my feelings, or feel inspired, you will most likely find me watching Star Wars or listening to music🎶✨”

🌱 Brooke works at our Gilbert office! If you’d like to schedule with her, please call our office at 480-590-3915, or email us at [email protected]!


being “regulated” doesn’t mean you never get anxious, overwhelmed, emotional, or triggered. it’s not about becoming calm...
05/22/2026

being “regulated” doesn’t mean you never get anxious, overwhelmed, emotional, or triggered. it’s not about becoming calm all the time or reacting “perfectly.” it’s more about being able to move through emotions without feeling completely consumed by them.

a lot of us learned survival mode before we learned regulation, so if this feels hard, you’re definitely not alone in it🩵


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