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09/26/2026

This week marks the final article in my 12-week series, Becoming Your Own Safe Place.

And perhaps there is no better place to end than here:
Becoming the Woman You Needed When You Were Younger.
Healing is not only about understanding what happened to us. Eventually, it becomes about deciding how we want to live, how we want to treat ourselves, what patterns we want to leave behind, and what kind of encouragement we want to leave in the lives of others.

You may not be able to rewrite the beginning of your story, but you can become the woman who gives that younger version of you the safety, compassion, protection, and belief she once needed.

And from there, you get to decide what comes next.
Read the final article in the Becoming Your Own Safe Place series: Becoming the Woman You Needed When You Were Younger

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09/26/2026

Consequences are an important part of parenting, but accountability should never require a child to fear rejection, humiliation, or the loss of connection.

This week in Raising Children With Connection and Clarity, I explore the difference between consequences that teach and punishment that relies on fear. We’ll look at why emotional safety and firm boundaries can coexist, why connection is not the same as permissiveness, and how parents can help children take responsibility for their choices without turning mistakes into judgments about who they are.

Because the lesson we ultimately want children to carry forward is not simply, “I better not get caught.”

It is: “When I make a mistake, I can take responsibility, repair what I can, learn from it, and try again.”

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09/20/2026

How much of your life have you postponed while waiting to feel ready?

We often assume confidence must come first. We tell ourselves we will apply, speak up, set the boundary, share the idea, or begin again once the fear is gone. Yet confidence is rarely something we receive before taking action. More often, it is the evidence we gather after we choose one courageous step.

In Week 11 of Living Courageously, I explore the difference between genuine preparation and fear-based delay, why a wise pause is not the same as avoidance, and how small, imperfect action helps build lasting self-trust.

You do not have to feel fearless. You may only need to be ready enough for the next honest step.

Read Stop Waiting Until You Feel Ready: Why Courage Comes Before Confidence, Not After It.

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Why Courage Comes Before Confidence, Not After It There may be something you have been telling yourself you will do when you feel ready. You will apply for the position when you feel more qualified.

09/20/2026

Validation is one of the most powerful ways parents can strengthen connection with their children, but it is also widely misunderstood.

Acknowledging a child’s feelings does not mean agreeing with every interpretation, excusing hurtful behavior, or changing a reasonable “no.” It means communicating, “I want to understand what this feels like for you,” while continuing to provide the guidance and boundaries children need.

In Week 6 of Parenting With Warmth and Leadership, I explore how parents can validate the feeling without confirming an inaccurate belief, allowing unsafe behavior, or giving in to every demand. When children feel understood, they become more able to listen, consider another perspective, and make healthier choices.

Read The Power of Validation in Parenting: How to Acknowledge Feelings Without Agreeing With Every Interpretation, Behavior, or Demand.



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09/12/2026

Some of the strongest women you know may not feel strong at all.

They may simply be waking up each day and choosing to take one more step. They may be rebuilding after disappointment, learning to set boundaries, asking for support, or beginning again without knowing exactly where the path will lead.

“The Quiet Strength of Women Who Keep Going” celebrates the courage found in perseverance, not perfection. It is a reminder that strength can include rest, vulnerability, uncertainty, and self-compassion.

Your progress does not have to be dramatic to be meaningful. You do not have to move forward perfectly. You only have to remain connected to yourself as you continue.



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09/12/2026

Month 2: Parenting With Warmth and Leadership

Compassionate parenting is not parenting without limits. Throughout this month, we will explore how parents can nurture connection while still providing the structure, accountability, and adult leadership children need to feel secure.

Gentle parenting is often mistaken for parenting without rules, consequences, or accountability. But empathy does not mean giving in, and respecting a child’s feelings does not mean placing the child in charge.

Children need adults who can understand their emotions while still providing clear expectations and calm, consistent leadership.
This week’s article, Gentle Parenting vs. Passive Parenting, explores how parents can validate feelings, hold meaningful boundaries, and guide children through disappointment without shame or unnecessary control.

Compassion and leadership are not opposites. Children need both.




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09/06/2026

Month 3 - Living Courageously: Stepping Into Purpose With Confidence

Living courageously does not mean living without fear, uncertainty, or moments of self-doubt. It means choosing not to let those feelings make every decision for you. Over the next four weeks, we will explore what it means to trust your voice, honor your purpose, and take meaningful steps toward the life you feel called to create.

Have you ever shared a dream or vision, only to be met with doubt, criticism, or questions about whether you were capable of making it happen?

When enough people question us, their voices can begin to sound like evidence. Before long, we may find ourselves repeating their doubts and becoming another voice telling us why we cannot move forward.

Living courageously does not mean ignoring thoughtful feedback or pretending fear does not exist. It means learning to separate wisdom from discouragement, remaining connected to what matters, and refusing to abandon yourself when others cannot yet see what you see.

This week’s article, When the World Doubts You, Don’t Join the Chorus, explores how to protect your vision, trust your inner voice, and continue taking meaningful steps even when the world does not understand your path.

Standing Firm in Your Vision Despite Outside Criticism There is a particular kind of courage required to believe in something that other people cannot yet see. Perhaps you feel called to begin again, pursue a dream, change careers, write a book, create something meaningful, leave behind what no long

09/06/2026

Anxiety does not always look like worry.

For some children, it may appear as anger, avoidance, refusal, perfectionism, physical complaints, silence, or the insistence that they do not care. While research identifies some average differences in emotional expression between boys and girls, no child follows a single pattern.

This week’s article explores how anxiety may appear in children while reminding us to look beyond gender-based assumptions and focus on the individual child beneath the behavior.

When we respond with curiosity instead of judgment, we create space for children to feel understood, supported, and safe enough to ask for help.



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08/29/2026

Have you ever noticed how easily you offer patience and understanding to someone else, yet expect yourself to recover quickly, stay strong, and keep going?

Holding space for yourself means allowing your emotions to exist without immediately judging, minimizing, or trying to fix them. It is not about remaining stuck. It is about refusing to abandon yourself when life becomes difficult.

In this week’s article, Learning to Hold Space for Yourself, we explore why self-compassion can feel so unfamiliar and how giving yourself grace can help your nervous system feel safer, supported, and understood.

You deserve the same kindness you offer everyone else.

Giving yourself the same grace and compassion you offer everyone else. Some of the most compassionate people struggle to offer that same compassion to themselves.

08/29/2026

Sometimes the behavior we see is only the final part of the story.

A child who melts down in a noisy store, refuses certain clothing, shuts down after school, or becomes emotional over one more request may not be trying to be difficult. Their nervous system may simply be overwhelmed.

This week’s article explores what sensory overload can look like in children, why reasoning and communication may become harder during these moments, and how adults can respond with regulation before correction.

When we stop asking, “How do I make this behavior stop?” and begin asking, “What became too much?” We create room for safety, understanding, and meaningful skill-building.

When the world becomes too loud, too bright, too fast, or simply too much, a child’s behavior may be their nervous system asking for safety, space, and support. By Christine Colburn, LPC, NCC, CCTP, CATP A child refuses to put on socks that felt fine yesterday.