07/31/2026
Our caregivers notice when the fridge is full but nothing’s been touched. No one taught her to catch that.
There’s no line on a care plan for it. No box to check. It’s just something you pick up on when you’re in someone’s kitchen twice a week and you start to know what normal looks like for them.
The thing about food is that it’s easy to say yes to. Did you eat today? Yes. And that’s usually the end of the conversation, because what else are you going to do, drive over and open the fridge?
So you stock it. You buy the yogurt she likes. You feel a little better on the drive home.
And then someone who’s actually there notices that the yogurt is still there. Same spot. Same four containers.
That’s not a task we assign. It’s what happens when the same person keeps showing up and starts paying attention to the small stuff.