18/10/2023
Part 3 of 4
We move downstairs to set up the pool and between contractions I’m frantically giving my husband instructions, “My birth affirmations! Don’t forget the tarp under the pool! The blessed candle! Text our neighbor and the prayer text for their prayers!”
My husband quickly gets pool blown up while also trying to follow all my requests, and provide support as each. It really was beautiful chaos and I can laugh looking back on it now but in the moment, I was super freaked out by all the rushing.
Midwife arrives at 7:40 as I’m working through a contraction.
I ask her, “What in the world is going on? This can’t be happening this fast.”
She says “Everything’s ok, we’re having a baby soon!”
**I thought how does she know?! I was so used to having multiple cervical checks in the hospital and I received none during my home birth. It is amazing how intuned midwives are with the mother, her movement, her voice, her body.
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