05/18/2026
Somewhere along the way, "therapist" became code for someone who has it all figured out. Calm voice, clean kitchen, never raises her voice, journals every morning, drinks one glass of wine a year, etc.
I'm not that. Most of the therapists I know aren't that.
I swear in session sometimes. I watch a truly embarrassing amount of reality TV. I've tried journaling and it's not for me. I cry in my own therapy appointments. I drink too much caffeine.
I think the version of "therapist" that's polished and put-together all the time is part of why so many people are scared to start. If your therapist seems like she's never struggled with anything, why would you tell her about your stuff?
You don't need a therapist who has it together. You need one who's honest about not always having it together... and who's done the work to know the difference.
— Allison
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