Stillinger Family Funeral Homes

10/20/2026

Betty A. Bowman

Betty Ann Bowman, 87, of New Palestine, Indiana, passed away Thursday, October 15, 2026, at Aperion Care of Greenfield, surrounded by her family. She was born October 29, 1938, in Spirit River, Alberta, Canada, to Archie and Edna (Luhtala) McMillan.

Betty worked as a Computer Operator for Meridian Insurance for twenty-seven years until her retirement in 2003. After her retirement, she went on to work at Fazoli’s as well as McDonald’s. She attended First Church of the Nazarene in Indianapolis, Indiana. In her leisure time, Betty was an avid bowler but loved spending time with her family more than anything.

Betty is survived by her four children, Betty (Daniel) Brown, Terri (Stephen) Uppfalt, Gary (Mary) Bowman, and Darren (Marlene) Bowman; seventeen grandchildren and forty-four great-grandchildren with one on the way; as well as her three siblings, Archie McMillan, Yvonne Keiver, and Marty McMillan.

Betty is preceded in death by her husband, Keith Bowman, whom she shared forty-nine years of marriage; two grandchildren, Brandon and Jessica Bowman; and her three siblings, Orville and Carl McMillan and Anita Starling.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx Chapel, has been entrusted with the arrangements. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com.

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10/19/2026

Sandra Gene Brashears

Sandra Gene Brashears, 57, of Greenfield, Indiana, passed away on Wednesday, October 7, 2026, at Hancock Regional Hospital in Greenfield. She was born on February 18, 1969, in Indianapolis, Indiana, to William Eugene Jack Brashears and Sharon (Jackson) Donoven.

Sandra worked at Leo’s Eatery in Greenfield. In her leisure time, she enjoyed crafting, sewing, and attending church with the Gideons.

Survivors include her three sons, Wesley England, James Isaac Watkins III, and Jacob Michael Watkins; and her three sisters, Machell Painter, Rhonda Sue Grayson, and Charlene Allbright.

No services have been scheduled at this time. Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Pasco Chapel, has been entrusted with the arrangements. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com.

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10/19/2026

10/16/2026

Raymond John Forthofer

Raymond John Forthofer, 90, of Greenfield, Indiana, passed away peacefully on October 14, 2026, at Woodland Terrace of New Palestine, surrounded by his loving family. He was born on May 29, 1936, in Batesville, Indiana, to John Anthony Forthofer and Lydia (Marticke) Forthofer.

Ray graduated from Batesville High School with the class of 1954, and went on to proudly serve his country in the United States Air Force from 1957 to 1961 as an aircraft electrician. He spent 46 years as a toolmaker for Chrysler, retiring in 2001 after a long and dedicated career.

On June 23, 1962, Ray married his beloved wife, Virginia Merkel. Together, they shared over 64 years of love.

Ray showed his love through acts of service to others and to his community. As a young man, he volunteered as a firefighter and EMT in Wanamaker, Indiana. He was a volunteer for Nativity Parish in Indianapolis, Indiana, where he worked as a groundskeeper, and helped with maintenance. He was also a member of the Knights of St. John. Ray had a passion for softball, where he loved to spend his time out on the ball field, serving as Umpire-in-Chief for Metro Indianapolis, as an Amateur Softball Association Rules Interpreter, as well as an umpire for high school and college softball. He was a longtime member of St. Michael Catholic Church in Greenfield, Indiana, where he served as an usher.

Ray could often be seen on his John Deere lawn mower, or tinkering around in his garage, but above all, he loved spending time with his family. Some of the most treasured memories of him were the times you could find him cheering on his grandchildren at their various sporting events, as well as sitting down to play with Legos and Matchbox cars as a “captive audience” with his great-grandchildren. He also had a passion for researching and learning about the world on “The iPad”. Ray will be remembered for his generosity, dedication, and love for his family, friends, and his community.

Survivors include his loving wife, Ginny; his children, Linda and her husband, Dr. John Joven, Teresa and her husband, Sean Curry, and Anthony Forthofer and his wife, Leigh Anne; his 9 grandchildren, Amanda (Robert) Bernardi, Emily (Kevin) Eibner, Ryan Curry, Samuel (Ashley) Forthofer, Benjamin Forthofer, and Olivia, Christopher, Daniel, and Michael Joven; his 7 great-grandchildren, Allie, Eli, Cora, Isaac, Izzy, Ian, and Isaiah; and his two siblings, Sr. Ruth Mary Forthofer and Carolyn Billman.

Ray was preceded in death by his parents; his siblings, Edward Forthofer and Ann Duerstock; as well as his cousin, Margaret LaFollette.

Visitation will be held on Monday, October 19, 2026, from 3:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Pasco Chapel, 1780 West Main Street, Greenfield, Indiana 46140, with Recitation of the Rosary to begin at 7:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, October 20, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Michael Catholic Church, 519 Jefferson Boulevard, Greenfield, Indiana 46140, with Reverend Aaron Jenkins to officiate. Burial will follow at Park Cemetery in Greenfield, Indiana.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Michael Catholic Church. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com.

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10/16/2026

If you've lost your spouse or partner, cooking for just yourself can be difficult at first. Read this article for some helpful tips and resources for cooking for one while you're grieving.

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10/15/2026

Every life is worth celebrating with a personalized service that is as unique as they are.

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10/15/2026

Pregnancy and infant loss is often swept under the rug and not given the respect and acknowledgement it deserves. That’s why we are thankful for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. May this day bring awareness and normalcy to the very real grief parents feel after the loss of a child so early in life.

10/13/2026

J'Nene Frances Jessup

J’Nene Frances Jessup, 86, of Greenfield, Indiana, passed into the arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Friday, October 9, 2026, at Hancock Regional Hospital. J’Nene was born on January 14, 1940, in Indianapolis, Indiana, to Alfred and Helen (Schaefer) Wellinghoff.

J’Nene graduated from Redondo Beach High School in California with the class of 1958. She married the love of her life, Larry Wayne Jessup, on June 18, 1960. Larry passed away November 30, 2024.

She loved to read, crochet, do crossword puzzles, and was an avid card player. For 60 years, she and Larry shared a special friendship and developed dinner club outings with Joe and Peggy Hager, Paul and Barb Neal, and Tom and Carole Stevens. J’Nene loved being around her family and especially enjoyed time well spent with her children and grandchildren. She was a talented artist and worked for DaJo Studio painting portraits for several years. She then went on to work at Hancock Memorial Hospital in the housekeeping department with an accomplished seventeen years of dedication, retiring in 1995. After her retirement, she worked for the Greenfield Central school system in food services. J’Nene was a member of the Jayshees and the Bunco Club. She also was a member of New Palestine Christian Church.

J’Nene is survived by her four children, Bernard (Jenny) Jessup, Lisa Sauer, Abby (Larry) Lincoln, and Mary (Rex) Griffin; 11 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren with one on the way; her sister, Helen Madison; many nieces and nephews; as well as her special caregivers, Sabrina Meredith, Susan Robertson, and Gwen Strough.

J’Nene was preceded in death by her loving husband, Larry; her parents; her two sisters, Rebecca Oaldon and Mary Patterson; as well as her son-in-law, Jeff Sauer.

Visitation will be on Wednesday, October 21, 2026, from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Pasco Chapel, 1780 West Main Street, Greenfield, Indiana 46140. The funeral service will be held on Thursday, October 22, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at the funeral home with ministers Russ Jarvis and Daren Huber officiating. Entombment will follow in Washington Park East Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 50 91st Street, Suite #100, Indianapolis, IN 46240 and/or the American Heart Association, 8720 Castle Creek Pkwy #100, Indianapolis, IN 46250. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com.

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10/09/2026

When you've lost your mom, you may not know where to begin planning a personalized tribute that honors her beautiful soul. With this comprehensive guide, you will find easy answers and guidance on how to create a final tribute that celebrates her in a sweet and meaningful way.

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