06/16/2026
Unconditional love requires love, respect, kindness, safety, and boundaries. Boundaries are not rude, ultimatums, weapons or meant to change someone else. They are healthy, respectful tools that establishes what you will and will not do based on your values. When somebody has a lack of boundaries or boundaries are not respected, it can become a difficult environment to foster unconditional love. Here are a few signs of lacking boundaries:
π You take on more tasks than you can handle
π You do things you donβt want to, or it's hard to say no
π You lose your temper with someone often
π You complain about someoneβs behavior often
π You dread spending time with someone
π You feel powerless over your time, finances, or life
π You feel you have lost your voice for yourself
π You often feel used by people