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Camilla Mendoza, PhD (ABD), LMFT, LCDC, has over 25 years experience with families, couples, and individuals

06/23/2026

04/08/2026

Sometimes we move through our day without really thinking about the decisions we’re making… but every choice carries weight.

Take a moment and ask yourself:
What did I choose today?
Was it intentional… or just a reaction?

Be honest about what you felt, what you told yourself, and what it may have cost you—even in small ways. Not to shame yourself, but to become more aware.

Growth doesn’t come from perfection… it comes from ownership.

And here’s the real question:
What would the disciplined, healed version of you do next time?

You don’t have to get it all right today…just commit to one better choice tomorrow.

That’s how change happens—one decision at a time.

Camilia Mendoza, PhD (ABD), LMFT, LCDC
Founder, Refined by Fire Counseling Services
Becoming Dr. Cam 🔥
https://rbfcounseling.com

03/25/2026

Feelings aren’t the problem—they’re messengers.

When we slow down and listen, our emotions often point us toward what we truly need: connection, rest, boundaries, healing.

Learning to respond instead of react is where real growth begins.

At Refined by Fire Counseling Services, we help you understand your emotions so they can guide you—not overwhelm you.

03/23/2026

We live in a world that praises hustle, urgency, and constant movement—but rarely do we talk about the power of slowing down.

Slowing down isn’t laziness.
It’s therapeutic.
It’s necessary.
It’s medicinal.

When you slow down, your nervous system has a chance to regulate. Your mind can process instead of just react. Your body can release what it’s been holding onto.

Healing doesn’t happen in chaos.
Clarity doesn’t come from rushing.
Peace isn’t found in constant doing.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause… breathe… and allow yourself to just be.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected—this may be your sign to slow down. Not forever, just long enough to come back to yourself.

You don’t have to earn rest. You need it.

Address

5144 E Sam Houston Pkwy N , Suites #122/# 124
Houston, TX
77015

Telephone

+18325987253

Website

http://www.rbfcounseling.com/

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