05/18/2026
A positive pregnancy test after infertility, IVF, or pregnancy loss does not always bring immediate joy.
For many individuals and couples, it brings fear, hesitation, and a cautious sense of hope.
You may find yourself thinking:
“I want to believe this will work, but I’m afraid to let myself hope.”
This experience is often called guarded hope.
Guarded hope is not a sign that you are ungrateful or pessimistic. It is a natural response to the grief and uncertainty that infertility and loss can create.
In my latest blog post, I explore why guarded hope happens, how grief and hope can coexist, and ways to support yourself during pregnancy after infertility or loss.
If this resonates with you, please know you are not alone.
Read more here:
https://www.peaceincognitivewellness.com/blog/guarded-hope-infertility-pregnancy-after-loss-and-the-grief-that-comes-with-both
It is common to feel fear and uncertainty after a positive pregnancy test following infertility, IVF, miscarriage, or pregnancy loss. Learn how guarded hope helps you hold both grief and cautious optimism during pregnancy after loss.