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Well Rounded Birth Prep WellRoundedBirthPrep.com Sarah DeGroff, Informed birth options based upon knowledge of alternatives. wellroundedbirthprep @ gmail . com

Independent Childbirth Educator, Lactation Support, Babywearing Instructor. I am an ICEA certified, independent childbirth educator. This means that no facility (hospital or other business) is paying me. I have the freedom to give you evidence-based information without censorship that sometimes occurs from institutions that may dictate what is (or is not) taught. My classes incorporate the 6 Healt

hy Birth Practices as recommended by the World Health Organization. Some of the topics to be covered in a childbirth class series are
* nutrition & preventing PIH (pregnancy induced hypertension) & gestational diabetes
* body mechanics & baby's position
* stages of labor
* positions for labor
* positions for pushing
* medications and birth interventions--pros and cons, including Bag O' Interventions "Show and Tell"
* If you choose an epidural, how to avoid a cesarean.
* mothers' rights
* what to expect at your place of birth locally
* informed consent or refusal; bait-and-switch
* birth plans
* support system for labor, birth, and postpartum
* relaxation and coping techniques for labor
* "real"/active labor vs. "false"/prelabor
* local resources for birth & postpartum support
* preterm labor signs/ warning signs
* breastfeeding
* Kangaroo care
* attachment parenting
* babywearing
* and much more

I also offer free breastfeeding support for all graduates of my birth classes (group or private). This can be in-person support at your house or mine (depending on distance), by phone, or by e-mail/IM. I can tailor private classes for you in your own home, based on your needs, including topics such as newborn care, refresher for 2nd (or more) time mom, weighing VBAC vs. repeat cesarean, classes for moms on bedrest, breastfeeding, babywearing, baby sign language, family-centered cesareans, natural family planning, placenta encapsulation, and more. My specialties are normal, physiological birth; positions and coping techniques for unmedicated birth; homebirth; and waterbirth. I'm a retired La Leche League Leader with over 10 years' experience breastfeeding my 5 children, including nursing during pregnancy and tandem nursing. I've overcome mastitis, thrush, nursing strikes, and more plugged ducts than I can count. I offer peer breastfeeding support and counseling to my clients. I have 5 children here and 1 in heaven. Baby #1 was an unmedicated hospital birth in 2002, but I tore badly and later learned that the whole debacle was utterly preventable. Thus I sought homebirths with midwives for my subsequent births in 2004, 2006, 2008, and 2011. We lost a baby in 2007 (missed miscarriage at 15 weeks resulting in D&C--I'd opt out of that if I had it to do over again).

Getting tested for iodine sufficiency can help prevent problems down the road.
05/21/2026

Getting tested for iodine sufficiency can help prevent problems down the road.

Folate gets the lion's share of attention in prenatal vitamins. Iodine doesn't. Many prenatal products contain little or none of it. A new analysis of 1,211 UK mother-child pairs followed for 15 years shows where exactly that gap shows up.

The Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children (ALSPAC) is one of the largest pregnancy cohorts in the world. In this latest analysis (Keestra et al., European Journal of Nutrition, March 2026), researchers measured urinary iodine-to-creatinine ratios in first-trimester maternal urine and then followed the children for 15 years. At age 15, they administered the Two-Subtest Wechsler Abbreviated Scale of Intelligence (WASI), which produces two separate scores: Vocabulary (verbal intelligence) and Matrix Reasoning (abstract, non-verbal reasoning).

The finding was specific. In linear regression adjusted for confounders, lower first-trimester maternal iodine status predicted lower Vocabulary T-scores at age 15. Matrix Reasoning was not affected. Children of mothers in the severe deficiency group (urinary iodine below 50 µg/g creatinine in the first trimester) scored about 4 T-score points lower on Vocabulary at age 15 than children of mothers in the iodine-sufficient group (150 to 250 µg/g). Full-Scale IQ was also about 3 points lower at severe deficiency, but this is mathematically driven by the Vocabulary component since Matrix Reasoning held steady. The pattern did not differ by s*x.

Why does first-trimester iodine matter specifically? The fetal brain begins building itself before the fetus has a working thyroid gland. The fetal thyroid does not reach functional autonomy until roughly 16 to 20 weeks of gestation. Before that, the developing fetus relies on maternal thyroxine (T4) crossing the placenta to supply the thyroid hormone its neurons need for migration, differentiation, and synapse formation. Maternal thyroid hormone production depends on iodine. If a mother enters pregnancy with insufficient iodine intake, her thyroid cannot produce enough T4 to meet the demand of two organisms in the most metabolically intense window of fetal neurodevelopment.

The most operationally relevant point about timing: the first trimester is when most women don't yet know they're pregnant. By the time a missed period prompts a test, the embryo has already completed neural tube closure and entered the earliest waves of cortical neurogenesis. Whatever iodine status a mother brought into pregnancy is what those processes ran on.

There's a nuance in the paper worth flagging. In iodine-deficient pregnancies, mothers with higher TSH (thyroid-stimulating hormone, the brain's signal telling the thyroid to work harder) had children with higher IQ scores than mothers with normal TSH. The pattern was not seen in iodine-sufficient pregnancies. The interpretation: the maternal hypothalamic-pituitary-thyroid axis appears to partially compensate when iodine is limited, ramping up thyroid drive to maintain T4 output for the fetus. This is consistent with broader pregnancy physiology, where maternal thyroid demand increases roughly 50% by the second trimester. But compensation has limits. Severe deficiency outran what the maternal axis could buffer.

The practical question is what's in a prenatal vitamin. The World Health Organization recommends 250 µg/day of total dietary iodine for pregnant women. The American Thyroid Association recommends at least 150 µg/day from a supplement on top of dietary intake. Many US prenatal vitamins contain 150 µg or less. Some contain none at all. Iodine is not required to be on the label in the same regulatory way that folate is, and brand-to-brand variation is large.

What this looks like in practice. Read the supplement facts panel on whatever prenatal you take and confirm iodine is present at the dose your clinician recommends. Iodine in a supplement should be from potassium iodide, not from a kelp or seaweed extract where the dose varies unpredictably and can fluctuate by orders of magnitude between batches. Iodized salt remains a major dietary source in many countries, but iodized salt use has declined in the US as more households use specialty salts (sea salt, Himalayan, kosher) that are not typically iodized. Dairy is the largest dietary contributor in many Western populations. Saltwater fish and eggs are smaller but reliable.

The most important timing detail. This study measured first-trimester maternal iodine, which means iodine status was already established before pregnancy was confirmed. Iodine intake should be optimized before conception, not after the positive test. If pregnancy is being planned, that means at least the three months prior. If pregnancy is possible, ongoing adequate iodine is the safer default.

What this paper does not say. It does not say that iodine deficiency caused lower vocabulary, only that it predicted lower vocabulary in a large adjusted analysis. It does not address whether postnatal iodine intervention would change cognitive trajectory, because the relevant exposure window is already past at birth. It does not say that mild deficiency (50 to 149 µg/g) is harmful, since the effect was only statistically significant at the severe threshold in the categorical analysis.

What it does say is that what a mother's prenatal contained 15 years ago is measurable in her child's verbal intelligence today. That's a long horizon for one nutrient.

Citation: Keestra SM, Königs M, van Welie N, Dreyer K, Oosterlaan J. Iodine deficiency in the first pregnancy trimester and intelligence in adolescence. European Journal of Nutrition. 2026 Mar.

ALSPAC cohort, n = 1,211 mother-child pairs, first-trimester urinary iodine-to-creatinine ratios, Two-Subtest WASI at age 15.

05/18/2026

An IBCLC brings some clarity to the recent Economist article about breastfeeding & “low milk supply.”

The Economist also does nothing to address the systemic problems with maternity care in the US & UK that contribute to birth trauma, sleepy babies from birth meds & interventions, and more.

05/14/2026

Attachment parenting was never meant to exist inside a detached society. Can we just acknowledge this?

We are trying to practice biologically normal infant care in a culture that has become increasingly disconnected from caregiving, community, interdependence, and even from our own bodies.

Babies still arrive expecting closeness.
They still want to be held day and night.
They still wake frequently.
They still regulate through touch, movement, breastfeeding, proximity, and co-regulation.

Human infants have not changed.

But society has.

We now live in a world that expects mothers to mother as though they don’t have needs. To respond to babies while also remaining productive, independent, emotionally regulated, professionally available, physically attractive, and chronically overstimulated. All within a detached society that will offer her no real support.

And then mothers wonder why they’re drowning.

Not because attachment parenting is wrong.
But because attachment parenting was never supposed to happen in isolation.

For most of human history, attachment-based care existed inside of attachment-based communities.

There were aunties holding babies.
Grandmothers cooking meals.
Older children entertaining toddlers.
Neighbors stopping by.
Women resting together.
Multiple nervous systems sharing the load of raising humanity.

A mother breastfeeding a baby all night was not also expected to wake up alone and carry the entire weight of domestic labor, emotional labor, financial pressure, and modern life without pause.

Responsive parenting only works sustainably when someone is also responding to the mother.

That’s the missing piece.

So if you feel exhausted by the constant touch…
If you feel emotionally frayed despite deeply loving your baby…
If you sometimes wonder why something that feels so instinctive can also feel so impossibly heavy…

It’s because humans were never designed to parent this way alone.

Your baby is not too dependent.
You are not too sensitive.

You are trying to stay deeply connected in a society that rewards disconnection.

And that is hard work.
✏️Julie Matheney, LA Lactation. I see you.

05/13/2026

The whole approach is different if a surgeon (who is an expert in pathology, surgery, medicine) is the care provider as opposed to a midwife (who is an expert in healthy pregnancies, labors, and births). Henci Goer explains…

Local pregnant moms in the region of Charleston, WV:
04/24/2026

Local pregnant moms in the region of Charleston, WV:

📢 FREE OB Ultrasound Scans are available at BridgeValley Community & Technical College! Scans are performed by ultrasound students with instructors present to supervise every session. 45-minute appointments available now through April 30th, 9AM–1PM.

📍 Main Campus, Room 141

04/15/2026

Free hypnobirthing course

A hypnotherapist local to me has finished his studies for hypno birthing. He needs to complete a case study for his certification.

The classes can be for just the mother, or for mom plus her birth partner. The classes will help the birth partner support the mother in relaxation and pain management during birth.

The classes series is 2 hours each for 5 weeks in a row. The mother needs to be in at least her 2nd trimester. It can be via Zoom for any location, but he does prefer local if there’s a qualifying mom able to do these classes in person in Teays Valley, WV.

Contact Sam Somerville to see if this could be a fit for you.

Email at [email protected]

Or phone 3049370033

Cosleeping is co-regulation.
02/15/2026

Cosleeping is co-regulation.

Research tells us that babies who co-sleep in infancy, especially in those early years can receive around 13,000 extra hours of touch.

Thirteen thousand.

Because when you keep your baby close, day and night, they’re getting 10 to 12 extra hours a day of your skin, your warmth, your presence.

That’s not spoiling.
That’s wiring.

Touch is brain food.
It releases oxytocin and serotonin.
It lowers cortisol.

It teaches your baby’s body how to feel safe.
How to come back to calm.

We actually have studies showing that
co-sleeping babies have lower stress reactivity meaning their little bodies bounce back from stress faster.

More hours of touch by age three.

That’s not dependence.
That’s co-regulation.
That’s safety being built from the inside out.
That’s wiring.

So the next time you’re contact napping, bed sharing, or doing whatever gets you both some rest and someone tells you you’re creating bad habits remember this,

You’re not creating a clingy baby.
You’re creating a resilient one 🖤

Confirming moms’ instincts - support breastfeeding preemies!
02/11/2026

Confirming moms’ instincts - support breastfeeding preemies!

Let’s put to rest for good the false assumptions that bottle-feeding is “easier” for preemies than breastfeeding. Acording to this 2026 RCT, at their first feeding by mouth, preemies breastfed had measurably better oxygen levels and heart rates compared with those whose first oral feed was by bottle. The breastfed preemies even took more milk! Please share these findings far and wide! https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41318959/

FINALLY!!! We’ve had this data for at least the 2 decades that I’ve been reading about it. Cry-it-out does damage to bab...
01/27/2026

FINALLY!!! We’ve had this data for at least the 2 decades that I’ve been reading about it. Cry-it-out does damage to babies & the American Academy of Pediatrics at last admits this.

My favorite resource for safe infant sleep & attachment is Notre Dame U Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Lab. I’ll put the 🔗 in the 👇

The American Academy of Pediatrics now warns that sleep training before 12 months can disrupt attachment and nervous system regulation. The concern is not parenting style but biology. Babies’ brains are still wiring safety signals through proximity.
In the first year, infants cannot self-regulate. Their nervous system relies on co-regulation with caregivers. When stress rises, closeness to a parent helps settle the amygdala, lower cortisol, and signal safety. Room-sharing is a natural way to provide this support.
Sleep training too early teaches babies to manage stress alone before their brains are ready. Calm is not learned by isolation under stress. Instead, infants need repeated, responsive soothing so regulation becomes internalized over time.
Parents who previously sleep trained are not failing their children. They acted on the information available in a culture that often prioritizes independence over developmental readiness. Understanding the science changes how we view early sleep strategies.
This research emphasizes that proximity wires safety. Babies learn calm through closeness, not isolation. Early care that meets stress with support builds secure attachment, emotional regulation, and lifelong resilience.

How to prepare freezer stash of breastmilk for potential power outages. Stay safe, everyone! ❄️
01/23/2026

How to prepare freezer stash of breastmilk for potential power outages. Stay safe, everyone! ❄️

With a major winter storm potentially affecting dozens of states, we recognize the concerns many have about stored milk.

Updated to add: A stand alone freezer will maintain temperature for 48 hours in a power outage if unopened. A freezer compartment within a fridge will maintain temperature for 24 hours if unopened.

[Image Description] Photo of a wintery scene. Text on top reads, "Power outage? Worried about your frozen milk? Try to keep the freezer door completely shut while power is out. Once power is restored, check to see if there are any ice crystals that remain in the bags. If there are any frozen ice crystals at all, it may be refrozen." The La Leche League USA logo is below the text.

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