08/30/2026
Your child brings home an A, scores the goal, makes the team, or wins the award.
“Great job! You’re so smart!”
It sounds encouraging—and it is. But when most of our praise focuses on results, children may begin to believe that success is what makes them worthy of praise.
Effort-focused praise helps them notice something more useful: what they can actually control.
The preparation.
The persistence.
The courage to try.
The willingness to learn.
The decision to keep going when something is difficult.
Results still matter, but they never tell the whole story. Sometimes a child works incredibly hard and still loses, struggles, or falls short. How we respond in those moments can help build resilience—or leave them afraid to try again.
This week From Root & Rise, we’re looking at how small changes in the way we praise our children can shape how they approach challenges, mistakes, and growth.
Read “Efforts > Results: Why How We Praise Our Kids Matters”:
https://vist.ly/5gmj2
Know a parent, teacher, coach, or grandparent who needs this reminder? Send it to them.