08/29/2026
How are you really doing?
Sometimes stress shows up in changes to your sleep, appetite, mood, body, relationships, or ability to get through your day.
A useful stress check-in is less about asking “Am I stressed?” and more about looking at different areas of your life and noticing what has changed.
1. How has my sleep been lately?
Look for changes in how much you’re sleeping, how well you’re sleeping, or whether you’re having trouble winding down. Sleep can be one of the first areas affected when stress starts to build.
2. How has my relationship with food and appetite been?
Notice whether you’re eating regularly or experiencing changes in appetite. Stress can affect eating patterns in different ways, so the goal is simply to notice what’s different for you.
3. What has my emotional baseline been like?
Have you been more irritable, anxious, overwhelmed, down, or emotionally drained than usual? Changes in your mood can offer clues about how much you’re carrying.
4. What is my body telling me?
Stress can show up physically through muscle tension, headaches, digestive changes, fatigue, restlessness, or feeling constantly “on.” Your body can sometimes notice stress before your mind does.
5. How am I showing up in my relationships?
Are you withdrawing, feeling more reactive, or finding it harder to connect? Or do you have people you can lean on right now? Our relationships can both reflect and influence how we're managing stress.
6. How manageable does everyday life feel?
Are you keeping up with your responsibilities, or are routine tasks suddenly feeling overwhelming? Changes in concentration, motivation, decision-making, or productivity can be signs that your stress load is getting heavier.
The goal isn't to eliminate stress or evaluate yourself perfectly. It’s to notice patterns early enough that you can respond to them.