Intimate Partner Betrayal Alliance

09/04/2026

What would happen if the laws actually started to reflect what victims have been saying? is violence. It causes harm! This ruling in the Philippines is just the tip of the iceberg, but I think its movement in the right direction.

09/01/2026

People are quietly conditioning you to accept more when they refuse to change but want the same connection with you.

08/31/2026

08/27/2026

This is why it’s not just cheating it’s warfare. Your body will absolutely keep score and let you know you’re losing the battle.

08/26/2026

Sadly, this is how many women discover betrayal. They are home working, caring for the kids and their spouse is out having affairs.

As strange as it sounds, relief is not an uncommon emotion to feel. After you’ve tried everything to make the marriage work, discovering the real issue helps it all make sense.

08/25/2026

“I didn’t lose just a marriage, I lost myself for a while.” Truth 💣!

Drop a 🧡 if you’ve ever had to rebuild after betrayal.

What healed Alessia wasn’t “trying harder.” It was realizing her identity was never supposed to be built on another person’s choices.

Healing starts when you stop carrying blame that was never yours. Sometimes the biggest loss is the version of you that forgot who she was. Alessia had to do the work in herself, find the right support, and learn who God says she is.

What part of this hit you most?

You can learn more about Alessia Madkins, LPC, CCPS on her website www.compassguided.com.

You can hear the entire episode using the link below or on any streaming platform:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/3bQasdY9hRJ1OcV5gP4N8Q?si=IkE5yS7yRPGEsNzuI6GbYA&utm_source=copy-link

08/24/2026

Overfunctioning is a term used to describe a dynamic in which one partner carries the bulk of daily responsibilities, initiates difficult conversations, and tries to resolve problems that arise in the relationship. Most betrayed partners don’t recognize how much they overfunction until they can no longer do it. can be so traumatizing, everyday tasks feel overwhelming. Then it becomes obvious how little your partner actually does.