09/01/2026
Hey, come sit with me.
Let’s chat about schemas.
Our stories shaped by experience, carried forward as expectations, and lived through the states they evoke.
They show up as a tightened jaw.
A person you cannot stop wanting.
An apology that leaves your mouth before you know what you’re sorry for.
A life built around never needing too much.
Your body remembers.
Your nervous system predicts before conscious thought catches up.
This is SCHEMA at work.
And some of our deepest schemas began forming before we had language or choice.
Memory.
Emotion.
Belief.
Sensation.
Adaptation.
Braided together so tightly
we begin calling the braid ME.
This September, we’re exploring the invisible architecture beneath everyday life.
Not to tear it down.
But to finally feel the difference
between the house we inherited
and the one we want to live in.
A practice to get you started:
When your reaction feels bigger than the moment, ask:
What does a part of me already believe is about to happen?
That expectation may be a doorway into a schema. 🫶🏼