08/15/2026
Good morning to my beautiful members of my Frientele! You may have come in as a client but you left as a friend! 🙏🙏🙏
Don’t let the heifers steal your joy. 😂
That is my lesson from last night.
I had accomplished something I was proud of, completing the bookwork to get a certification. When I finished, I was excited about it.
My excitement flowed into my creative side and with nothing but good intentions, made something to celebrate that accomplishment; a diploma worthy of putting on the wall. I then sent it to the person involved to get their permission to use it.
Well, what came back at me was certainly not what I expected because the individual made a massive assumption. A horrible assumption, and really quite frankly, one that no human being would ever say out loud to another human being.
I think that's why it hit me so hard, that the callousness of people making these nasty remarks is something they would never actually say to a person for fear of the reaction. But they are safe in doing so via our devices.
A complete stranger took me to task for something that was well-intentioned, that was seeking permission, and that was only meant to lift their product. It was here she made this massive assumption and how she was going to "forgive me" for allowing my creative side to upgrade her piece of paper.
She stole my joy. Her reply made me wanna vomit. And I was stunned, as if a lightning bolt hit me. This was an individual that I looked up to, and unfortunately she thinks very little of me. And that is what I got from how she responded to my creativity.
Looking at it today, I now realize that I didn't let her steal my joy, I GAVE it to her. I momentarily handed it over.
Because I went from being excited and proud and ready to share, to becoming pi**ed, hurt and wanting absolutely nothing to do with any of her class or her program. So much so that I reached out to my sister to vent, thus removing the heifer's crap.
In the energy world, one way that you remove that kind of hatefulness from your energy system is to write it down and burn it. So that's what I did because I didn’t want her energy or that experience to fully attach to something I had been so happy about.
People will always make massive and stupid remarks.
For the love of God please choose your words wisely
They’re going to make assumptions about you, they're going to trash your name, without a care and without knowing a damn thing about you. Acknowledge their hatefulness, let it go, and move on.
You don’t have to stay there.
You recognize it for what it is, leave their s**t with them, and get yourself right back to where you were before they showed their ugliness.
PEACE, LOVE AND JOY
So that’s my reminder to myself and to you this morning—
Don’t let the heifers steal your joy.
Because your joy is yours.
And nobody gets to have that kind of authority over your vibe unless you give it to them.
Keep the Vibe 365. ❤️
Peace, love and joy always,
JoAnn
