07/29/2026
Hey Mamas, have you ever heard of “Second Night Syndrome”?
On night one, your new sweetie is often content to simply be skin-to-skin with you, where she can feel secure in the warmth of your skin and receive colostrum from your breast. It’s a great time to fall in love, rest, and connect. 😇
..but then, on night two, your once sweet and calm angel baby is crying. A lot! All the calming things that worked before suddenly aren’t working anymore, and Baby is SUPER CRANKY! 🦀
If you’ve experienced “Second Night Syndrome,” it can feel like it will last forever, and often, nursing mothers will offer their baby formula, assuming they are hungry and unsatisfied.
The truth is, the cluster feeding your baby is asking for actually assists with good, healthy milk production. Keeping yourself close to them and gently responding to their cries can help kick-start healthy attachment behaviors. And, of course, we have to consider that Baby might simply need some close, calm snuggling to settle after what was likely a quite overstimulating day of visitors, siblings, and first bouts of hunger.
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Midwife Tips for Night 2:
- Keep Day 2 calm and consider limiting visitors
- Nap during the day to prepare for the night to come
- If the crying begins around sundown, parents can take turns through the night calming baby
When the sun rises, 🌅 your sweetie will be back to her calm, angelic little self...and life will go on as if it never happened!
If you have any other tips for Second Night Syndrome, I'd love for you to share them with us in the comments!