06/22/2026
2021 ➡️ 2026
Sometimes I watch old videos like this and smile at the version of myself who thought she had it all figured out. This video was created during my first semester of internship. I was passionate, determined, and absolutely certain about the direction my career would take. I was going to be a play therapist.
There is an old saying: “We plan and God laughs.” The older I get, the more I understand the wisdom in those words. I said I would never work in addiction treatment. My first job immediately following graduation from Lamar was in a residential substance use facility, where I spent the next two years learning some of the most valuable lessons of my career.
I said I would probably never own a private practice because I believed I functioned best within established systems and clear organizational leadership. Yet here I am, approaching one year of running my own practice.
The truth is that every step I was afraid to take became an opportunity for growth. Every season of uncertainty stretched me. Every unexpected detour taught me something I could not have learned otherwise. The counselor I am today was shaped not only by the plans that worked out, but by the plans that didn’t. And for that, I would not change a thing.
To anyone walking through a season of transition, fear, and uncertainty, know that it is okay if your life does not look the way you planned. The version of success you imagined five years ago may not be the version that ultimately fulfills you. Trust that growth is happening, even when the path ahead is unclear. Sometimes life unfolds differently than we imagined — not because we’ve failed, but because something greater is unfolding.
Keep showing up. Keep taking the next step. Have faith in the process. Have faith in your ability to adapt. And have faith that not every detour is a setback.