11/09/2023
Lately, I have been learning to just go with the flow of life. For someone who has cancer (a long with many other health issues) there are few thing that truly Rule your health and quality of life.
1: stress. Now, it’s no secret to anyone that my life, is FAR From normal! 😂🤦♀️🤷🏻♀️ From my birth to my daily medical upkeep, with all my other personal life battles right now. Letting that stress go is harder said then done! But once you Find that peace within. You can stop caring about what others think of you! That’s when you can start to take care of yourself!
2: Support. This is Huge for EVERYONE who has ANY health issues or limitations. Why is this important? Because we already feel bad that we are alway sick or not able to do what seem like simple task, to the ordinary healthy person! So, we feel bad and that sadness starts to turn into anger and then the anger turns into you feeling Crazy!!! So having someone who understands and doesn’t make you feel bad is Life Saving! Also, with chronic pain to have some who knows your out burst are from distress and desperation, they don’t hold that against you! This is my husband and Dad for me! My husband has been so amazing through this and has been taking care of me and his dad (who I call dad) I really don’t think I would have ever made it this long with out my husband.
3: sleep! My healing has been slow and the pain has no time frame! I sleep at the most random times because my body is so exhausted!!! When we fall a sleep, let us sleep! My hubby is so good about this! Because of the none stop pain, vomiting, other medical issues. I’m up and down all hours day and night. So when I do finally sleep, he tells everyone in the house so I can rest!
So that’s my two cents. Also, my shout out to my hubby and dad for putting up with me and helping to care for me and support me through the thick and thin!!! Thank you to all of you my lovely’s!!!! For your prayers and support! Miss you all!
