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06/28/2026

The Importance of Communication in Relationships

Healthy communication is an important part of building and maintaining strong relationships. This article highlights how open, honest conversations can help people better understand one another, strengthen trust, and create deeper connections. While difficult conversations can sometimes feel uncomfortable, communication is a skill that can be developed with practice.

Good communication involves more than simply expressing your thoughts. It also includes listening with curiosity, asking questions, and making an effort to understand another person’s perspective. When people feel heard and respected, it becomes easier to work through misunderstandings and navigate challenges together.

Communication doesn’t have to be perfect to be effective. Small, consistent efforts to be open, honest, and understanding can help build healthier relationships and support both emotional well-being and personal growth over time.

Authors: Alyse Campbell, Sherry Zhang

Think of communication as opening the window of your mind, and inviting someone else to open theirs. It can be scary, because it takes courage to expose ourselves to the unknown. It can also be stressful to navigate rejection, judgement, or conflict. But opening that window can also reveal compromis...

06/25/2026

Building Healthy Relationships

Healthy relationships can have a positive impact on our mental and emotional well-being. This article highlights several important components of healthy relationships, including trust, respect, honesty, communication, and mutual support. These qualities help create a foundation where people feel valued, heard, and safe.

At the same time, it can be helpful to recognize signs that a relationship may be unhealthy. Red flags such as controlling behavior, manipulation, disrespect, or a lack of boundaries can affect emotional well-being and make it more difficult to maintain a healthy connection with others.

Building healthy relationships isn’t about finding perfection. It’s about creating connections where both people can communicate openly, support one another, and grow together while maintaining respect for each other’s needs and boundaries.

Learn key elements of healthy relationships: communication, honesty, respect. Identify red flags to prevent abuse. Seek support if needed. Stay safe.

06/23/2026

The Importance of Social Connection

Strong relationships play an important role in both our mental and physical well-being. This article from Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health highlights how meaningful social connections can contribute to a healthier, longer life and help protect against feelings of loneliness and isolation.

Connection doesn’t always require a large social circle. Whether it’s spending time with family, talking with a trusted friend, or participating in a community activity, positive relationships can provide support, encouragement, and a sense of belonging during both good times and difficult ones.

Building and maintaining connections takes effort, but even small moments of genuine interaction can make a difference. Investing in relationships is not only beneficial for those around us, but also an important part of caring for our own well-being.

Author: Giulia Cambieri

Social connection, prosociality, spirituality, optimism, and work—growing evidence suggests these five factors help people live longer, healthier lives.

06/05/2026

Coping With Uncertainty

Uncertainty is a natural part of life, yet it can often be a source of stress and anxiety. This article from Harvard Graduate School of Arts and Sciences discusses how our minds naturally seek predictability, which can make uncertain situations feel uncomfortable or overwhelming. Learning to recognize this response can help us better understand why uncertainty affects us the way it does.

When faced with the unknown, it can be easy to get caught up in “what if” thinking or spend energy trying to control outcomes that are outside of our influence. Focusing on what is within your control, such as your actions, choices, and daily habits, can help create a greater sense of stability during uncertain times.

Coping with uncertainty doesn’t mean having all the answers. It means developing the confidence to navigate challenges as they come and trusting in your ability to adapt, even when the path forward isn’t completely clear.

Author: TARA COUSINEAU

If there’s one thing the human brain resists, it’s ambiguity. Uncertainty activates our inner critic, ramps up fear of failure, and triggers survival responses like fight (stress and anxiety), flight (avoidance and procrastination), and freeze (burnout and depression). Luckily, there are skills ...

05/30/2026

Building Emotional Resilience

Life comes with challenges, setbacks, and stressful moments that we can’t always control. This article explores emotional resilience, which is the ability to adapt, recover, and continue moving forward during difficult times. Emotional resilience doesn’t mean avoiding stress or never struggling, it means learning how to respond to challenges in a healthy and flexible way.

Building resilience often involves developing supportive habits such as self-awareness, healthy coping strategies, strong relationships, and realistic thinking patterns. While some situations may feel overwhelming, resilience can grow over time through small, consistent efforts and by recognizing the strengths we already have.

Emotional resilience is not about being unaffected by hardship. It’s about giving yourself the space to acknowledge difficulties, adapt to them, and continue moving forward even when things aren’t easy.

Emotional resilience is the intrinsic ability to calm your mind.

05/16/2026

How to Become a Therapist

Becoming a therapist is a journey that involves education, training, and a commitment to helping others improve their mental health. This article explains that while the exact path can vary depending on the type of therapist someone wants to become, most careers in therapy begin with earning a bachelor’s degree followed by graduate-level education in counseling, psychology, or a related field.

In addition to education, therapists typically complete supervised clinical experience and must meet state licensing requirements before practicing independently. These steps are designed to help future therapists develop the knowledge, skills, and ethical understanding needed to support others in meaningful and responsible ways.

Choosing to become a therapist is more than selecting a career path, it’s a commitment to continued learning, empathy, and supporting people through life’s challenges. While the process takes time and dedication, many find it to be a deeply rewarding profession built on helping others grow, heal, and better understand themselves.

Learn how many years it takes to become a therapist, including the educational requirements, certification processes, and career pathway.

05/10/2026

Starting Therapy: Taking the First Step

Beginning therapy can feel intimidating, especially when you’re unsure of what to expect or whether it’s the right choice for you. This article from Spring Health explains that starting therapy doesn’t require having everything figured out—it simply begins with recognizing that your mental health deserves attention and support.

Therapy can provide a space to better understand your thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and life experiences. Finding the right therapist may take time, and it’s normal to have questions or feel uncertain during the process. What matters most is taking that first step and allowing yourself the opportunity to be heard and supported.

Seeking help is not a sign of weakness. Reaching out for support can be an important part of learning healthier ways to cope, grow, and care for your overall well-being over time.

Most people—even those with a strong support system and no diagnosable mental illness—can benefit from therapy at some point in their lives. But the signs that therapy might be helpful aren’t always obvious.

05/03/2026

How Thoughts, Feelings, and Actions Work Together

Our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are closely connected, often influencing each other more than we realize. This article highlights how these three areas form a cycle, where the way we interpret situations can shape how we feel and how we respond.

For example, a single thought can affect your mood, and that mood can influence your actions, which then reinforce the original thought. Over time, this can create patterns that either support your well-being or make stress and anxiety feel more overwhelming.

Understanding this connection can be a helpful step toward change. You don’t have to shift everything at once—small changes in how you think, respond, or act can begin to create a more balanced and supportive cycle over time.

Author: Debbie Woodall

04/24/2026

Reframing Unhelpful Thoughts

Our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are closely connected. This article from NHS explains how unhelpful thinking patterns can create cycles that increase stress and anxiety, and how learning to reframe those thoughts can help break that cycle.

Unhelpful thoughts can show up as expecting the worst, focusing only on negatives, or viewing situations in extremes. Since these thoughts often happen automatically, they can feel true even when they don’t reflect the full situation. Taking a moment to slow down, question the thought, and consider other perspectives can help create space before reacting.

Reframing isn’t about forcing positivity. It’s about learning to think more flexibly, so you can respond with greater clarity and balance over time.

Learn a technique to help you step back, assess the evidence for your negative thoughts and explore other ways of looking at the situation.

04/18/2026

Understanding Negative Thought Patterns

Our thoughts can have a powerful impact on how we experience stress and anxiety. This article highlights common negative thinking patterns—often called cognitive distortions—that can shape how we see ourselves and the world around us.

These patterns can show up in different ways, such as assuming the worst, being overly critical of yourself, or viewing situations in extremes. Often, these thoughts happen automatically, which can make them feel true even when they may not reflect the full picture.

Learning to slow down and notice these patterns is an important first step. When you begin to catch these thoughts as they happen, it becomes easier to understand what you’re feeling and where those feelings may be coming from.

Becoming more aware of how you think doesn’t mean forcing positivity. It means creating space to recognize unhelpful patterns and respond to them with more clarity and balance over time.

The Stress & Development Lab has completed data collection for all studies and is no longer recruiting research participants, students, or staff. Lab Director Dr. Katie McLaughlin now serves as the Executive Director of the Ballmer Institute for Children's Behavioral Health at the University of Oreg...