02/10/2026
Are you uncomfortable looking a special needs person in the eye?
Our son is autistic and nonverbal. We go out walking and shopping. That is his socialization. I notice that most of the people are uncomfortable looking him in the eye. They do not want to be accused of staring, so the safer approach is to ignore him, trying to send a polite message, "I did not even notice you are different." That ends up being counterproductive. I wish people would look him in the eyes, smile, and say hello to him. He may not be able to return the pleasantries, but I know it makes him happy. It makes him feel like he is part of the society at large.
Next time you see a person with special needs: Look them in the eye. Say hello. Believe me, they appreciate it.
I'd love to hear from other parents or individuals—what has your experience been?