08/28/2026
Sometimes “I’m fine” isn’t exactly a lie.
It’s just… heavily edited.
We talk about being stressed but leave out the anger. We admit we’re grieving but leave out the relief. We tell someone our relationship is complicated but leave out the part that feels embarrassing, contradictory, or impossible to explain.
And then sometimes we wonder why, despite having people who care about us, we still don’t feel completely understood.
This week on Your Alternative Therapist, I’m writing about self-concealment, shame, vulnerability, and the difference between having healthy privacy and slowly editing yourself out of your own story.
Because not everyone deserves the unedited version of you.
But you deserve at least one place where you don’t have to leave out half the story. 🖤
https://youralternativetherapist.substack.com/p/im-fine-as-long-as-i-leave-out-half
What happens when we want to be understood, but only feel safe sharing the parts of ourselves we think other people can handle?