02/16/2022
I really don’t want to be aborted…and this isn’t a religious thing. Parents message me wanting me to provide some sort of blessing that it’s okay to abort their unborn child because of clubfoot. I can’t give this blessing. These messages destroy me because we’re weighing lots of factors from cultural differences, lack of adequate care and more. I then often need to explain that my life isn’t worth less than any other life because I am born different. I have to explain because I am bluntly told this is in fact the case, meaning I am considered lesser in certain cultures. Some days I break down and cry for the unborn child, for the mother and for myself…and then other days I power through. These conversations are tough.
I am not here to judge. I am not a religious person. I will not speak against the right to choose, it’s not my place. I am here to just say that I would never want to be aborted, that I love the gift of life, I love my different body, that even with massive challenges and setbacks, for instance, this past week, that I don’t want any other life. If you have an unborn child with a limb differences, clubfoot, you have a miracle and this child’s life isn’t worth less than a child born without differences. If you struggle, you have a team here that will help you. Please continue to reach out if you struggle.