07/30/2026
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I still stand by this message today.
One of the biggest fears I hear from parents is, âIf my baby cries, am I hurting our attachment?â
The answer is no.
There are so many moments throughout a babyâs day that involve tears or frustration. We change diapers they donât want changed. We buckle them into car seats. We wipe noses. We set loving boundaries. We help them through hard things.
Attachment isnât about preventing every tear. Itâs about being a safe, consistent, responsive parent over thousands of interactions.
The same is true when youâre teaching healthy sleep habits. If your approach is loving, responsive, and appropriate for your child, a few tears while learning a new skill are not what define your relationship.
Your connection is built in everything you do, every single day. â¤ď¸
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