Siblings Against DUI

05/06/2026

i know this is not my usual share on this page but Jaylee is a close family friend and i just want this to go far so we can catch who did this to her. her and her entire family have been close to us for many many years and Jaylee is an absolute sweetheart who doesn’t deserve this. all she did was flip someone off for break checking them and this happened. please share this and get this info out so we can bring Jaylee justice as she continues to fight for her life.

This is JayLee Gross, who is fighting for her life after Critically Injured in Suspected Road Rage Shooting on U.S. 71 Highway in Kansas City

KANSAS CITY, Mo. — Authorities are investigating a late-night road rage shooting that left a young woman fighting for her life after being shot in the head along U.S. Highway 71.

The victim has been identified as JayLee Gross, who remains in critical condition following the incident. Family members say she continues to fight for her life as doctors provide emergency care.

According to police, officers were dispatched shortly after midnight to reports of gunfire near 29th Street and U.S. 71 Highway. Investigators believe the shooting occurred between approximately 12:30 a.m. and 1:00 a.m.

JayLee Gross was a passenger in a vehicle at the time of the shooting when gunfire erupted during what authorities suspect to be a road rage incident.

Following the shooting, the driver of the vehicle attempted to rush Gross to a nearby hospital. However, the vehicle stopped at the intersection of 29th Street and U.S. 71, where paramedics located them.

Emergency medical personnel transported Gross to a local hospital in critical condition. The male driver of the vehicle was not injured.

Police are searching for a black Ford Fusion, believed to be a 2015–2020 model, with tinted windows, which is thought to be connected to the shooting.

The investigation remains active as detectives work to determine the circumstances leading up to the shooting and identify those responsible.

Family members are urging anyone who may have witnessed the incident or has information — including dashcam or surveillance footage — to contact local law enforcement.

Authorities emphasize that even small details could prove critical in solving the case. Anyone with information is encouraged to come forward as police continue their search for suspects involved in this violent incident.

04/25/2026

HAD to share this organization that through donations helps to spread encouragement and gratitude to those who choose NOT to drink and drive with free coffee left on their vehicles for when they come back the next day to get their cars. this is amazing to see and i so badly hope we are able to bring something like this to KANSAS!!

04/22/2026

just a friendly reminder: driving while high is also driving while impaired. alcohol isn’t the only thing that can affect your ability to properly operate a motor vehicle. dui is inclusive of all; alcohol, ma*****na, pills. be smart and make the right choices. driving while SOBER is the only safe way to drive.

04/19/2026

today miranda should have turned 21. happy 21st birthday wherever you are. we love and miss you everyday. gone but never forgotten. LLM🦇🖤

03/30/2026

as life goes on i find myself still struggling with my grief. it’s one of those things where as more time passes it feels worse but the world continues to think “it gets better with time” but i find it to be quite the opposite. i was born in march of 2003, miranda was born april of 2005. we are 2 years apart in age. i do not remember life before her. my earliest memories she was always there. but my brain has trouble acknowledging we are no longer 2 years apart now. we are 7 years apart as of yesterday. this is something i’ve been struggling with all week, just accepting that as fact. i had to work on my birthday (worst decision will not do again, f**k customers who i told have a great day and just nodded when it was MY birthday but anyways) and as i usually do i was listening to music in the car before my shift started. i have very fond memories of when i first learned to drive miranda was always my favorite passenger. one memory in particular she played the song beautiful by eminem and we just sat there and listened to it. that song came on while i was sitting in the car and i found myself imagining she was sitting passenger to me like before while listening to the song. even in moments of grief i find it quite nice to “play pretend” as if she was still here, next to me, just listening to a song in the car. do whatever silences your grief no matter how silly. grief is selfish and when you accept that, it makes dealing with it a bit easier.

03/17/2026

happy st. patrick’s day!🍀
remember to drink responsibly and don’t drive if you’re under the influence of ANYTHING!! have a safe holiday.
be smart, be safe, drive sober.🍀

03/15/2026

wanted a place to post about this and that was kind of the whole reason behind this page. while i was at work today my managers were talking about some kids that i guess got into a fight last night and got onto the topic of fighting in general. my gm then asked me, “haley have you ever been in a fight?” and i said “i mean yeah with my sister. she punched me in the face and hit my nose so i had two black eyes for like 2 weeks.” he then was like “omg she hit you so hard you had two black eyes?” and i laughed and said yeah. my other manager then asked me, “she’s probably single right?” to which i bluntly responded “no she’s dead.” their jaws dropped. my gm said “how did this go from a funny situation to sad? are you messing with us haley?” and i laughed and said “no she really is dead.” my other manager then got quiet and told me “im really sorry.” i wanted to share this because it was in that moment i got really sad, and that doesn’t happen often anymore when i talk about her. i tell stories about her all the time but i never really share about her being dead. grief is sneaky like that. one minute you’re laughing about a story related to them and the next you’re fighting back tears telling yourself “stop it. you’re at work. finish your shift.” that just hasn’t happened to me in a long time and it was not a fun feeling. anyways i’ll continue telling stories about miranda, i just don’t wanna talk about her being dead anymore.

02/28/2026

thank you for everyone’s support of this page, i truly cannot express how much it has meant to me. however im going to be gone from it for awhile. i still have big plans for what i want to do to heal myself in my grief by taking the initiative to do what i can to protect kids and families from the harms of drinking and driving. i will be back when i have figured all of that out. until then please, make your own posts, spread awareness. be the voice that screams to the world to stop drinking and driving. i cannot do it alone and i do not want the sole purpose behind your awareness to just be miranda. there are hundreds of thousands of victims of drinking and driving and their lives matter too. don’t spread awareness just for my sister, but for your family and friends too so we can protect them from a fate like this. be safe, be smart, drive sober.

-haley

02/21/2026

a conversation i wish i could have:

hey. this year is going really good for me. we got a place that i really love, we got a new car that’s really nice and when i start driving again maybe you can ride passenger like you always used to do with me, oh and i’m getting married this year. weird right? looks like you won’t have to deal with me crying to you about anymore boys which i’m sure makes you feel better. now you can’t call me a fat w***e anymore, gotta call me a fat wife now lmao. adelynn is so grown up now. she tells me that she misses you, we all do. and guess what?? heather became a teen mom like we always used to say she was going to. a real life debbie haha. also the whole family moved out of leavenworth thank god. i’m assuming you’re out there somewhere living your best life. did you ever save up to get that car you were telling me about? what job did you get? are you and anissa still together? did your hair grow out so you could fix it cause i know the last time we talked you weren’t happy with your haircut. i’m sure it looks a lot better now. everybody is changing and growing up, its not the same. mom and dad don’t drink anymore. they’ve been sober since the accident 4 years ago. you’d like dad now, he’s really fun to be around. mom still talks about you everyday and moment she gets a chance. the rest of us are trying to move on with our lives. stephanie and david bought a house! they live so far away now but they seem really happy. i think most of us are finding ways to be happy again. i finally starting laughing at things again, it took awhile but im finding the joy in life. idk, i know this is a lot to read but i just wanted to give you an update. i miss you miranda, i still have the same phone number so if you ever want to reach out you can find me. i’ll never stop searching for you though.o

02/14/2026

somebody LOVES you. please make smart decisions this weekend and plan ahead!! if you’re going to drink don’t drive!! we all have someone waiting on us to come home. don’t be the person who takes that away. have a LOVELY weekend🩷🤍❤️