Ashley S. Holcomb, PsyD, Psychologist

04/09/2026

We all have a type, but for some, that type is a cyclical pattern of chaos and drama. Many people find themselves asking, "Why do I keep dating emotionally unavailable people?" only to find the same patterns repeating regardless of the partner. This blog explores the concept of attachment—our foundational orientation to relationships—and how these internal maps may be directing you toward unhealthy connections. Understanding these patterns is the first step toward breaking the cycle.

Stop the cycle of dating emotionally unavailable people. Learn how anxious and avoidant attachment styles impact your relationships and how to find healing.

03/16/2026

Merchant Monday!

Are you a mom in your 20s-40s, trying to do something different for your family, but constantly feeling overwhelmed or like you’re a “failure” while doing it?

You’re not alone.

You don’t have to figure this all out on your own. I’m Dr. Ashley Holcomb, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, and I’m here for the CycleBreakers - moms fighting to break generational trauma cycles with no village and no road map.

Therapy with me is about:
- Learning to respond to feelings rather than react to them
- Real-life communication and relationship skills
- Science-backed marriage tools
- Parent coaching
- Trauma recovery
- Rediscovering yourself after trauma or parenthood

Check out my website for more info and to get started today!

Professional trauma therapy for women in Clovis, CA, focused on healing, building healthy relationships, and personal growth through evidence-based methods.

02/23/2026

As a mom, self-criticism and perfectionism seem like helpful tools to make a better life for our children. But they don’t actually work. While we can always grow as moms, you’re probably going to be better at growing when you live from a place of self-care and self-compassion.

Looking for a self-care win today? My latest blog post breaks down practical ideas to practice mindfulness that DON’T include meditation or take ANY extra time.�
Check the link in bio to read more. 🔗

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02/19/2026

Can’t find time to meditate? Learn how "Mindfulness for Moms" can be integrated into your busy day to reduce anxiety and increase patience.

12/29/2025

New Years brings a wonderful time of reflection and goal setting. It can feel like a fresh start or a deep breath before taking on your newest project. But it may also feel like a lot of pressure to get your resolutions right and to make them stick. If you’ve experienced childhood trauma, you may not have confidence that you can make sustainable life changes. After all, while your peers were figuring out how to navigate health choices, finances, or relationships, you were trying to stay safe. In this post, I’ll give you some practical tips for setting your resolutions this year that will help you *actually* do them.

New Years brings a wonderful time of reflection and goal setting. It can feel like a fresh start or a deep breath before taking on your newest project. But it may also feel like a lot of pressure to get your resolutions right and to make them stick. If you’ve experienced childhood trauma, you may ...