07/16/2026
We often think of the inner critic as something we need to silence. But what if it first developed to protect us?
For many people, that critical voice wasn't something they were born with. It was shaped through experiences where mistakes didn't feel safe, love felt conditional, or being "good enough" seemed necessary to avoid rejection, criticism, or disappointment.
While the inner critic may have once been trying to protect you, it can eventually become the very thing that keeps you feeling stuck, anxious, or never quite enough.
In therapy, the goal isn't to fight that voice, it’s to understand it. As we begin to understand where it came from, we can relate to it with more curiosity and compassion, allowing a kinder, more authentic voice to emerge.
🌿 Healing often begins by changing the way we speak to ourselves.