10/23/2026
Hot take from a speech therapist: a child saying "cookie" because someone told them to is not the same as a child asking for a cookie because they want one. 🍪
When we ask for the word on cue, the word becomes a performance. When a child wants something, and the grown-up is ready to respond, the word has a reason to exist. That reason is what makes it stick.
A few things I hear from parents all the time:
👉 "He just points and grunts."
👉 "She only talks when she's already getting what she wants."
👉 "I feel like I'm always begging for a word."
Pointing is communication. It's a great place to start! We build on it by giving them the word in the moment, then giving a little pause to see what they try. The goal isn't a perfect word on the first try. It's a child who learns that asking works.
If your child rarely tries to tell you what they want, with a point, a sound, or a word, that's worth a conversation with an SLP. You don't have to wait for it to get bigger first.
I come to you in Maineville, Loveland, Mason, West Chester and nearby areas, and snack time is one of my favorite places to work because it happens every single day. Send me a message and tell me how snack time goes at your house. 💛