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08/18/2026

Options for taking a break from caregiving - It's essential to take breaks from your duties as a family caregiver. You need to recharge your own batteries if you're going to manage for the long haul. Several options exist to ensure your loved one is well cared for, from adult day center programs to short-term stays at facilities.

It's essential to take breaks from your duties as a family caregiver. You need to recharge your own batteries if you're going to manage for the long haul. Several options exist to ensure your loved one is well cared for, from adult day center programs to short-term stays at facilities.

08/11/2026

Using distraction in dementia care - When dementia affects an aging loved one's sense of reality, trying to correct them often makes things harder. Practicing validation and gentle redirection can ease frustration and help you connect with compassion.

When dementia affects an aging loved one's sense of reality, trying to correct them often makes things harder. Practicing validation and gentle redirection can ease frustration and help you connect with compassion.

08/04/2026

Managing anger as a family caregiver - Taking care of an aging loved one can test your patience in ways you never expected. Feeling angry doesn't make you a bad caregiver—it makes you human. What matters is how you respond to the emotion.

Taking care of an aging loved one can test your patience in ways you never expected. Feeling angry doesn't make you a bad caregiver—it makes you human. What matters is how you respond to the emotion.

07/28/2026

Getting them ready to fly? - If you feel daunted by the thought of an aging loved one traveling by air, know that there are many practical steps you can take beforehand to make things go smoothly for them, such as confirming medical clearance and arranging airport assistance in advance.

If you feel daunted by the thought of an aging loved one traveling by air, know that there are many practical steps you can take beforehand to make things go smoothly for them, such as confirming medical clearance and arranging airport assistance in advance.

07/21/2026

Preventing aspiration pneumonia - Aspiration pneumonia is a serious risk for many older adults, but there are ways you can help prevent it as a family caregiver, from upright seating to distraction-free meals.

Aspiration pneumonia is a serious risk for many older adults, but there are ways you can help prevent it as a family caregiver, from upright seating to distraction-free meals.

07/14/2026

“Promise you won’t …” - A loved one expressing their fear of living in a nursing home may pull on your heartstrings and draw upon your natural desire to promise them "never." But who can predict the future? It's wise to respond realistically while still honoring their concerns.

A loved one expressing their fear of living in a nursing home may pull on your heartstrings and draw upon your natural desire to promise them "never." But who can predict the future? It's wise to respond realistically while still honoring their concerns.

07/09/2026

Completing an advance directive - What would happen if your loved one couldn't speak for themselves? How would decisions for their care be made? An advance directive puts that guidance in place before a crisis. It's simple to complete, doesn't require an attorney, and ensures that treatment preferences are followed.

What would happen if your loved one couldn't speak for themselves? How would decisions for their care be made? An advance directive puts that guidance in place before a crisis. It's simple to complete, doesn't require an attorney, and ensures that treatment preferences are followed.

07/07/2026

How Parkinson’s affects communication - Parkinson's disease can make communication difficult. A rigid face and monotone voice project nonverbal cues that may not line up with what the person with Parkinson's is actually feeling. There are ways to offset these challenges and clarify emotional content and meaning.

Parkinson's disease can make communication difficult. A rigid face and monotone voice project nonverbal cues that may not line up with what the person with Parkinson's is actually feeling. There are ways to offset these challenges and clarify emotional content and meaning.

06/23/2026

We have some exciting news to share: Honora Care Management & Consulting is now Alder!

Our name and look are changing to better reflect who we've always been: a strong, enduring presence supporting you through everything aging may bring. We're here to help you navigate housing transitions, respond to emergencies, coordinate care, and provide the steady partnership your family deserves.

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