06/05/2026
Greetings to all my precious people!
Your mother's body taught you your first lesson about space:
You belong here.
Inside her womb, you took up space without apology. You grew. You moved. You EXPANDED. Her body made room for you—not because you earned it, not because you stayed small. Because you existed.
And then you were born. And over the years, culture taught you the opposite: take up less space (lose weight, don't be "too much"), be smaller (quieter, nicer, more agreeable), apologize for existing, make yourself convenient for everyone but yourself.
You learned to SHRINK.
But here's what I need you to understand: Your body is not an apology. And taking up space is not selfish. It's RECLAMATION.
👉 Head to my blog
(link in bio) to read my latest post: Taking Up Space
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