10/27/2026
There is nothing you can do that makes you deserving of abuse. 💜
Not making a mistake. Not saying the wrong thing. Not disappointing your partner. Not struggling to communicate. Not even hurting someone’s feelings.
You can be imperfect, make poor decisions, contribute to conflict, and still deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.
Abuse is not a consequence someone earns. It is a choice someone makes.
This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we’re reminding you that accountability and abuse are not the same thing. You can take responsibility for your actions without accepting mistreatment as punishment.
You do not have to be a perfect partner to deserve a safe relationship.
If you or someone you know needs support, visit thehotline.org or call 800-799-7233.