07/07/2026
Pastor Betty Jo Brown Riddle, a devoted wife, loving mother, cherished grandmother, great-grandmother, faithful pastor, compassionate counselor, dedicated educator, and treasured friend, peacefully entered into the presence of her Lord and Savior on Tuesday, June 30, 2026. While our hearts grieve her absence, we rejoice in knowing she has been reunited with the love of her life, her beloved husband, Bishop Tommy D. Riddle, Sr., whom she faithfully loved and supported until death parted them.
Betty was born on November 6, 1950, in Ada, Oklahoma, to the late Eddie Lee Brown, Sr. and Lorene Brown. From an early age, she possessed a caring spirit, a compassionate heart, and a gift for making everyone she met feel valued and loved.
On August 9, 1969, Betty married the love of her life, Tommy D. Riddle, Sr. Together they built a beautiful life centered on faith, family, and ministry. Their marriage was a remarkable testimony of love, commitment, and partnership. As Bishop Riddle faithfully served as pastor, Betty stood faithfully beside him as an extraordinary First Lady. She was his greatest supporter, encourager, confidante, and prayer partner. Together they served God's people with humility, compassion, and unwavering dedication. On April 12th, 2012, after the passing of her late husband of 42 years, she was ordained as pastor of The Bible Church Ministries by the late Bishop John Vincent, Tulsa, OK and Apostle Trixie Morgan of Cedartown, Georgia.
To this loving union were born four children whom she loved with all her heart: Cherie Riddle Battle, Tommy D. Riddle, Jr., Shandell Riddle, and Lakesa Riddle Money. She was the proud and loving grandmother of Jalen, Jasmine, Jayde, Janejah, Tiffani, Payden, Abel, Luke, Shaela, Bubba, Thomas, Alex, Tomisha, Dante, Abiance, and J'Vaughn, and the cherished great-grandmother of Tailayah, Taj, Azaya, Kaceyn, Karceyn, Mekiah, Cali Rose and Tommy IV and one precious great-grandson on the way. Her greatest joy was seeing her family together, sharing laughter, creating memories, and reminding each one how deeply they were loved.
Betty attended Napier High School in Ada, OK and later graduated from Byng Public Schools also in Ada, Oklahoma. She earned both her Bachelor's Degree in Education and her Master's Degree in Counseling, dedicating her life to helping others reach their fullest potential.
For 26 years, she faithfully served as a Special Education teacher at Wilburton Public Schools, where she taught seventh, eighth, and ninth-grade students. She believed every child deserved patience, encouragement, and the opportunity to succeed. Long after her students left her classroom, many remembered her kindness, wisdom, and belief in them.
Following her retirement in 2008, Betty continued serving others through counseling as a candidate under supervision with Rise Psychological Counseling Services. Whether in education, counseling, ministry, or everyday life, helping people was never simply her profession—it was her calling.
Those who knew Betty knew she never met a stranger. She loved talking with people and could strike up a conversation anywhere she went. Her warm smile, gentle hugs, infectious laughter, and genuine concern made everyone feel welcomed. She possessed a remarkable gift of listening without judgment, encouraging the discouraged, comforting the brokenhearted, and speaking hope into those who needed it most.
She had an extraordinary way of making every person feel as though they were the only one in the room. Whether someone was facing grief, illness, disappointment, or uncertainty, Betty always found time to pray, encourage, and remind them that God had not forgotten them.
Betty lived life with authenticity and grace. She was beautifully unique, independent in spirit, and never afraid to be herself. She lived life on her own terms—with bold faith, unwavering conviction, laughter, compassion, and a heart that continually sought to serve others. She believed that love should be demonstrated, faith should be lived, and kindness should never be withheld.
Above all else, Betty loved God, loved her family, and loved people. Her life reflected the words of Christ through every hug she gave, every prayer she prayed, every conversation she shared, and every life she touched.
She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Bishop Tommy D. Riddle, Sr.; her parents, Eddie Lee Brown, Sr. and Lorene Brown; her sister, Erma Brown; her brother, Oliver Brown; and two beloved grandchildren, Faith and Shan Riddle, Jr.
Although our hearts are heavy, we celebrate a life that was lived with purpose, compassion, and unwavering faith. Her legacy will continue through her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, family, church family, countless students, and the many lives she inspired.
Pastor Betty J. Riddle leaves to cherish her precious memory her devoted children, Cherie Riddle Battle, Tommy D. Riddle, Jr., Shandell Riddle, and Lakesa Riddle Money, who were the pride and joy of her life.
She also leaves behind her beloved siblings: Howard Brown (Annetta) of Norman, Oklahoma; Marilyn Pierce (Leon) of Tulsa, Oklahoma; Kathaleen Bitson (Mike) of Tulsa, Oklahoma; David Brown of Homer, Oklahoma; Dennis Brown of Stonewall, Oklahoma; Wanda Brown of Ada, Oklahoma; Jerry Brown of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; Johnny Harrison of Omaha, Nebraska; and Eddie Lee Brown, Jr. of Ada, Oklahoma.
She is also lovingly remembered by her fifteen grandchildren: Jalen, Jasmine, Jayde, Janejah, Tiffani, Payden, Abel, Luke, Shaela, Bubba, Thomas, Alex, Tomisha, Dante, Abience, and J'Vaughn; eight great-grandchildren: Tailayah, Taj, Azaya, Kaceyn, Karceyn, Mekiah, Cali Rose and Tommy IV and one precious great-grandson on the way.
In addition, she leaves a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family members, lifelong friends, church family, former students, and countless spiritual sons and daughters whose lives were forever changed by her love, wisdom, prayers, and unwavering faith.
Though her earthly voice has been silenced, the echoes of her love, compassion, laughter, and godly example will continue to resonate in the hearts of all who knew her. Her legacy is not measured only by the years she lived, but by the countless lives she touched, the hope she inspired, and the love she freely gave.
Pastor Betty J. Riddle's legacy is one of faith, love, service, and compassion—a legacy that will live on for generations to come.
Her race is finished. Her crown has been received. Her legacy lives on.