10/28/2026
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Post 4: Try this when you’re worried
It’s 11:15 on a Sunday night, and you can’t stop thinking about everything. Your daughter’s grades. The weird noise your car has been making. Whether your boss is upset with you. Your mom’s upcoming appointment. The credit card bill. They’re all swirling together in your head like laundry in a dryer, tumbling around and around until you can’t tell where one worry ends and the next begins.
Here’s a simple exercise that can help untangle the knot.
First, write a list of everything you’re secretly worrying about. Grab a notebook or the back of an envelope and get it all out of your head and onto paper, big or small, silly or serious. Seeing the worries in black and white often makes them feel a little smaller already.
Next, cross off the things that aren’t in your control. Whether your boss is in a bad mood, how the doctor’s appointment turns out, what the weather will be on Saturday. Draw a line through each one and, if it helps, say a short prayer handing them over to God.
Finally, look at what’s left. For each remaining worry, write one or two small steps you can actually take. Email your daughter’s teacher. Call the mechanic in the morning. Set up an automatic payment for the credit card.
Worry often comes from feeling stuck or unprepared. A plan, even a tiny one, gives your mind something solid to hold onto.
This won’t make every worry disappear. Some things still have to be lived through one day at a time. It can, however, turn a swirling cloud of fear into a short, manageable to-do list, and that alone can make it a lot easier to sleep.
So the next time your thoughts start spinning late at night, try reaching for a pen instead of your phone. Write it all down, cross off what isn’t yours to carry, and pick one small step for tomorrow, because you can’t fix everything tonight, but you can make the load feel a whole lot lighter.